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2020 End of Year Book Survey

Jan 28, 2021


I've almost reached the end of my reflections on 2020. I wasn't lying when I told you this was my favorite time of year! I love looking back at what I've learned, the progress I've made, the obsessions I've discovered, and more. I've already shared my top 20 books of 2020, but I love filling out this end of the year survey (from Jamie at The Perpetual Page-Turner) as a more in-depth look at the best and worst of my bookish and blogging life last year.

1. Number of Books You Read: 170 books
2. Number of Re-Reads: 20 re-reads
3. Genre You Read the Most From: Contemporary, per usual

1. Best book you read in 2020?
As always, I can't choose just one! Here's one for each of the top five genres I read this year:


CONTEMPORARY | If I Never Met You by Mhairi McFarlane

FANTASY | The Invisible Life of Addie LaRue by V.E. Schwab

HISTORICAL | Betty by Tiffany McDaniel

MYSTERY | Troubled Blood by Robert Galbraith

NON-FICTION | I Miss You When I Blink by Mary Laura Philpott

All of my favorites will be mentioned throughout this post, but here's my top twenty books of the year.

A Note: I challenged myself not to repeat any books in the answers below so that I could highlight a greater variety of books. It was difficult, but it helped me avoid highlighting the same books over and over again.


2. Book you were excited about & thought you were going to love more but didn't?
I was really looking forward to The Twelve Dates of Christmas by Jenny Bayliss based on the adorable cover, the setting, and my bestie's love for it... and then I hated it. I wasn't a fan of the writing, but the romance was the worst.

3. Most surprising (in a good or bad way) book of 2020?

IN A GOOD WAY | I'd heard great things about Maybe You Should Talk to Someone by Lori Gottlieb, but it didn't sound like something I'd typically pick up. Well, I ended up loving it and pushing it on my mom and sister, too.

IN A BAD WAY | After adoring The Flatshare, I really expected to love The Switch by Beth O'Leary. I even pre-ordered a UK copy for their adorable cover! And while it wasn't terrible, I was definitely disappointed overall.

4. Book you "pushed" the most people to read in 2020?
There are a handful of books that I pushed on people in real life this year, and one that immediately came to mind is The Midnight Library by Matt Haig. My sister, cousin, and bestie all read it based on my recommendation.


5. Best series you started in 2020? Best sequel of 2020? Best series ender of 2020? Best series overall in 2020?

STARTED | Although I had mixed feelings for House of Earth and Blood by Sarah J. Maas at times, I can't deny that it made me so hyped for a new series from this beloved author. The last 25%, in particular, totally delivered!

SEQUEL | No one is more shocked than I am that it's How the Light Gets In by Louise Penny. I thought I'd written this series off after reading the first four books, and yet I binged a ton more in 2020 and 5-starred this one.

ENDER | Igniting Darkness by Robin LaFevers was an amazing conclusion to this duology that I didn't even know I needed. I loved seeing where all these characters ended up and have my fingers crossed for another spin-off!

OVERALL | I didn't love every book equally, but I've got to hand it to The Travis Series by Lisa Kleypas. Kelly has been begging me to read it for years, and I refused until our March Madness bet. Welp, she was right. I said it.

6. Favorite new author you discovered in 2020?
This was a tough call, and you can check out my ten favorite new-to-me authors of 2020 to see who was in the running. I've got to hand it to Emily Henry. Beach Read was fantastic and has me excited for more from her!


7. Best book from a genre you don't typically read?
I had more options for this question than in most years, thanks to the variety of what I read this year. The standout was I Miss You When I Blink by Mary Laura Philpott, which was an essay collection that I adored.

8. Most action-packed, thrilling, unputdownable book in 2020?
A Good Girl's Guide to Murder by Holly Jackson, for sure. I checked this out from the library based on the hype and never expected to love it as much as I did. I'm so happy it's a series and that book two is out soon.

9. Book you read in 2020 that you are most likely to re-read next year?
There are 4-5 books that I've already got in mind for a re-read, but one of them is definitely You Deserve Each Other by Sarah Hogle. I already bought the audio for a future re-read, too! This one was just so much fun.

10. Most memorable character in 2020?
Betty by Tiffany McDaniel was a fictional story inspired by her own mother's story, and wow. That's honestly all I've got to say about this book. I think it's my favorite read of 2020, and Betty was an unforgettable heroine. 


11. Favorite cover of a book you read in 2020?
Here are four of my favorites: A Place at the Table by Sadia Faruqi and Laura Shovan, Miss Austen by Gill Hornby, Jane Was Here by N. Jacobsen, D. MacLennan, and L. Nilson, and Late Migrations by Margaret Renkl.


12. Most beautifully written book read in 2020?
There were a few contenders that fit better in other categories, so I'll go with The Invisible Life of Addie LaRue by V.E. Schwab. I loved how Schwab's writing had a fairy tale quality to it. It was so easy to lose myself in this story!

13. Most thought-provoking book in 2020?
That would be The Lazy Genius Way by Kendra Adachi. I learn so much from her weekly podcast, and her book was no different! I love that the principles are applicable to so many situations and plan to re-read this one.

14. Book you can't believe you waited UNTIL 2020 to finally read?
The last two books in the Dublin Murder Series – The Secret Place and The Trespasser – by Tana French. I thought I was done with the series after book 4, but I'm so glad I picked it back up. French won me over in no time!

15. Book that shocked you the most?
I continue to be obsessed with the world of Cormoran Strike and think each mystery is better than the one before it. Troubled Blood – a whopping 944 pages – was full of shocking twists and turns from beginning to end.

16. Favorite passage/quote from a book you read in 2020?
Two favorites from books that I haven't mentioned anywhere else in this post:

“Instructions for living a life: Pay attention. Be astonished. Tell about it.” – Devotions by Mary Oliver

“The truth of course is that if people really were as happy as they look on the Internet, they wouldn’t spend so much damn time on the Internet, because no one who’s having a really good day spends half of it taking pictures of themselves. Anyone can nurture a myth about their life if they have enough manure, so if the grass looks greener on the other side of the fence, that’s probably because it’s full of shit.” – Anxious People by Fredrik Backman

17. Shortest & longest book you read in 2020?

SHORTEST | And Every Morning the Way Home Gets Longer and Longer by Fredrik Backman

LONGEST | The Holy Bible


18. OTP of the year?
Definitely the couple in Dear Emmie Blue by Lia Louis! I randomly got this book for review, and it ended up being one of my absolute favorite reads of the year. So much swoon – with depth, too. I was rooting so hard for this hero!

19. Favorite non-romantic relationship of the year?

CO-WORKERS | I loved how Friends & Strangers by J. Courtney Sullivan explored the sticky friendship between a mother and her child's nanny. This was a slower, character-driven read that totally worked for me.

FRIENDSHIP | The ladies in The Giver of Stars by Jojo Moyes were wonderful. I loved their adventurous spirits and how they helped each other, despite their differences. Friendship + horses + books = my kind of book.

FAMILY | While it was all very messy and dramatic, I am totally here for the family dynamics in The Heir Affair by Heather Cocks and Jessica Morgan. I didn't always like their choices, but I still couldn't put it down.



20. Favorite book you read in 2020 from an author you've read previously?

ADULT | Sex and Vanity by Kevin Kwan was a delightful retelling of A Room with a View by E.M. Forster, one of my favorite classics. I loved this world of wealth and drama and thought it was a clever contemporization.

NON-FICTION | Don't Overthink It by Anne Bogel was really helpful for me and will likely be a book I re-read in the future. I am definitely guilty of overthinking and indecisiveness, so it felt like this was directed at me.

21. Best book you read in 2020 that you read based solely on a recommendation from somebody else?
I would never in a million years have picked up The Southern Book Club's Guide to Slaying Vampires by Grady Hendrix if my sister hadn't recommended it to me. Horror? Heck no! But y'all, this ended up being a really fun read. 

22. Newest fictional crush from a book you read in 2020?
He definitely has flaws, but Jason Larsen from The Happy Ever After Playlist by Abby Jimenez did steal a little piece of my heart this year. There's just something about his charming personality and musical ability got to me!


23. Best 2020 debut you read?
Happy & You Know It by Laura Hankin was a satirical take on motherhood, wealth & privilege, and having it all. I loved the elements that felt relatable – and laughed at the drama. This was such a satisfying read. 

24. Most vivid world/imagery in a book you read in 2020?
The desolate, small Texas town in Valentine by Elizabeth Wetmore felt like it was a character all on its own right. I could picture it in my mind and loved how Wetmore explored how the heroines were shaped by this place.

25. Book that was the most fun to read in 2020?
That would be If I Never Met You by Mhairi McFarlane. It was the first book I read after my baby was born, one of my most-anticipated 2020 releases, and gave me ALL THE FEELS. I have great memories of reading it!

26. Book that made you cry or nearly cry in 2020?
Chanel Miller's memoir, Know My Name, detailed the sexual assault she suffered and the additional trauma of the trial/sentencing. It's infuriating and heartbreaking, especially because you know it's one story of many more.



27. Hidden gem of the year?
Lucy Parker's Headliners was such a great addition to her London Celebrities series. I still think she's an underrated author! She's so great at contemporary romance – just the right amount of drama and so much swoon.

28. Book that crushed your soul?
I debated this one for a while, but I think Long Bright River by Liz Moore is the most vivid in my mind. The way it depicted the opioid crisis, addiction, and poverty was absolutely heartbreaking. It's a heavy read.

29. Most unique book you read in 2020?
The most unique story was Nothing to See Here by Kevin Wilson, in which two kids set themselves on fire when angry. The most unique format was Annie's Life in Lists by Kristin Mahoney, written entirely in list. 

30. Book that made you the maddest?
My least favorite book was The Marriage Game by Sara Desai, but What You Wish For by Katherine Center made me the biggest. The heroine made me want to scream, and the writing was so internal. Show me, stop telling!


1. New favorite book blog/bookstagram you discovered in 2020?
I'm cheating because this isn't a book blog, but I'm obsessed with Em for Marvelous. I originally started following for her goals posts but have quickly become a fan of everything she shares on her blog.

2. Favorite post that you wrote in 2020?
I mainly wrote mini reviews for my Quick Lit posts, but my favorite discussion post I wrote was about what I've learned from our newest love. A close second was my post about my favorite bookish memories!


3. Favorite bookish related photo you took in 2020?
Maybe this photo of The Heir Affair? It's what first came to mind. I've stopped posting to bookstagram, so I didn't take very many creative bookish photos this year. I did love this photo with my newborn in it though.

4. Best event that you participated in (author signings, festivals, virtual events, memes, etc.)?
Did I participate in any bookish events this year? I honestly don't think so. 

5. Best moment of bookish/blogging life in 2020?
My sister discovering a love of reading! I've always been the only avid reader in my immediate family, but sister became a total nerd in 2020. She's even featured on my blog now! I love our monthly dates to Barnes & Noble. 

6. Most challenging thing about your blogging or reading life this year?
Some of the challenges to my blogging and reading life stemmed from having a new baby and making time for both hobbies. As I approach 10 years of blogging, I've struggled a bit over my vision (goals?) for this space.

7. Most popular post this year on your blog?
In terms of views, it was my post celebrating 10 Years of Top Ten Tuesday! I doubled the fun and made two lists: one revisiting my past answers to 10 topics and one sharing my 10 favorite past topics I'd answered. 

8. Post you wished got a little more love?
There isn't anything that jumps out at me, though maybe my posts about my planners? And I think I might enjoy writing my My Year in {2020} posts more than people like reading them. Oh well. Haha!

9. Best bookish discovery?
I love this nerdy tee from Bookshelf Tees, and Lauren Naylor Designs' bookmarks are gorgeous. And my AirPods have increased my audiobook consumption more than I ever anticipated, so they deserve a mention, too.

10. Did you complete any reading challenge or goals that you set for yourself at the beginning of this year?
I did! I completed most of my reading challenges/goals that I set for myself, and you can read about them here. I've already set new bookish goals for 2021 and am so excited to see how I do!


1. One book you didn't get to in 2020 but will be your number one priority in 2021?
I can't believe I haven't read Admission by Julie Buxbaum. Even though it didn't come out until December, I've read most of her past books early for review or the day they released. This is a 2021 priority, for sure!

2. Non-debut book you are most anticipating for 2021?
How can I choose between Sarah J. Maas and Mhairi McFarlane? I will reluctantly give the the edge to A Court of Silver Flames because I can't wait to be back in this beloved world. Here are all my 2021 most-anticipated releases.

3. 2021 debut you are most anticipating?
Early reviews have me excited for Finlay Donovan is Killing It by Elle Cosimano. As far as non-fiction, I'm really looking forward to Share Your Stuff. I'll Go First. by Laura Tremaine. But I've got my eye on more books!

4. Series ending you are most anticipating in 2021?
I cannot for the life of me think of any series that are ending in 2021! I'm excited for a bunch of sequels but can't think of many endings. Maybe Life's Too Short by Abby Jimenez if it's the last book in that companion series? 

5. One thing you hope to accomplish or do in your reading/blogging in 2021?
For reading, I'd love to catch up on all my NetGalley reviews. It's just 15 books, some 2021 releases included, so it's manageable. For blogging, I want to improve my email newsletter which means I've got research to do.

6. A 2021 release you've already read and recommend to everyone?
I didn't read any 2021 releases in 2020 and haven't loved any that I've read so far this year enough to rave and recommend them to everyone. But The Heiress Gets a Duke by Harper St. George is the strongest contender!

If you completed the survey, leave a link below.
I'd love to see what made your list for 2020!

Author Obsessions in 2020

Jan 26, 2021


Let's talk about the new-to-me authors that I discovered in 2020. This Top Ten Tuesday topic, hosted by That Artsy Reader Girl, is one I've done every year since 2012! Sometimes I can easily come up with 10 authors and other years it's a struggle. 2020 was  the former! In fact, it was hard for me to narrow it down to just 10. I didn't decide based on who I thought was the best writer or wrote the best books. Instead, I chose the 10 authors that made me want to read more from them. I based it more on whether I'd read their backlist / pre-order their next book rather than if their book made my Top 20 of 2020 list (though many did!). Here's who made my list:


1. KENDRA ADACHI | The Lazy Genius Way
I love Adachi's Lazy Genius podcast and her Instagram, and I'm so happy that she was able to share her process in her book! I do think the principles in it were more memorable than her actual writing style, but she earned a spot because I want to read anything she publishes. I think the next book is food-related, and I can't wait!

2. RICK BRAGG | My Southern Journey
My Southern Journey was a random Goodwill find that I couldn't resist based on the 1) the price, 2) the cover, and 3) the length. A short book of Southern essays? Sure, I'll try it! Little did I know, I was about to fall in love with Bragg's writing and his audiobook narration. I've already bought four more of his books to read this year. 

3. LAURA HANKIN | Happy & You Know It
In 2020, I didn't pick up physical books nearly as often as I turned on an audio. And when I did, they often took me longer than normal to finish. Enter Laura Hankin and Happy & You Know It. I picked up my hardcover and couldn't put it down until I was done! This had me completely hooked, and I'm excited for Hankin's 2021 release.

4. EMILY HENRY | Beach Read
What I thought I was getting when I picked up Beach Read – a light and breezy contemporary novel befitting its title – wasn't quite what I got. I appreciated how Henry upended some of my expectations, but still gave me what I wanted in a romance. I need to check out her backlist of YA books and have her next adult book pre-ordered.

5. SARAH HOGLE | You Deserve Each Other
You Deserve Each Other was a delight, though I think it's the kind of book that will be polarizing with readers. The couple has some communication issues. For me, it worked! I thought the writing was quirky and sarcastic, and it made me excited to find a new voice in contemporary romance. Twice Shy can't get here soon enough!

Speaking of mysteries, I'm still trying to crack the case of how this book completely stole my heart. I adored the heroine and her crime-solving sidekick, and I thought the case itself was so compelling and memorable. I was thrilled to learn this was the first in a series and can't wait for the upcoming release of Good Girl, Bad Blood.

7. EMMA LORD | Tweet Cute
It takes a lot for a contemporary young adult novel to win me over these days, probably because I now identify too much with the parents, but Emma Lord did it in Tweet Cute. This reminded me of what I love about the genre! This was such a cute read and didn't take itself too seriously, so I'm looking forward to Lord's You've Got a Match

8. LIA LOUIS | Dear Emmie Blue
When I downloaded a review copy of Dear Emmie Blue, I had no idea it was about to cry, swoon, and close the last page with the biggest grin on my face. I haven't even reviewed this one yet because I can't put my love for it into words! I'm praying Louis' 2021 release, Eight Perfect Hours, is another perfect (for me) read.

9. TIFFANY MCDANIEL | Betty
Of everything I read in 2020, Betty is the book I'll remember most. I've discussed it endlessly with my sister, and we've pushed it on our mom. With vivid storytelling and a strong voice, it has an unforgettable heroine at its heart. It was one of the most emotionally heavy books I read but still hopeful, too. McDaniel's debut is now on my TBR!

10. MARY LAURA PHILPOTT | I Miss You When I Blink
I probably debated this addition to my list the longest. The way Philpott explored time, memory, and identity – and her Type A personality – was really meaningful for me and felt like something I read at the exact right time in my life. I have no idea if another essay collection would be as impactful, but I know I'd love for her to write one.

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Who was your favorite new-to-you author that you read in 2020?

2020 Bookish Goal Recap

Jan 13, 2021

I don't think I ever shared very much about my 2020 bookish goals on the blog, partly because I didn't to commit to too many things with a baby on the way. But I did write a few goals down for myself at the beginning of the year! After posting my 2021 bookish goals yesterday, I wanted to record how I did in 2020. I had six mini goals and feel really good about the progress I made on all of them. Following my goals, you'll find a few of my reading stats. My reading life looked a little different in 2020, and I wanted to briefly chat about those changes. 


1. Read 100 books in 2020.
Progress: Read 170 books

Thoughts: I almost always set my Goodreads Challenge number to 100 books. I prefer for it to be attainable rather than truly challenging – mostly because I don't want my goal to deter me from reading long books or cause me to pick up things that are short solely so I can get caught up. And looking back at the year I had my first baby, 100 books seemed like it might be a stretch. Thanks to audiobooks and all the extra time at home, I finished 170! 


Progress: Read three, DNFed two, culled two, and did not start three books
  1. READ: The Real Jane Austen by Paula Byrne, Saints for All Occasions by J. Courtney Sullivan, and A Perfect Heritage by Penny Vincenzi
  2. DNF: Shadow of Night by Deborah Harkness and Magic for Marigold by L.M. Montgomery
  3. CULLED: The Joy Luck Club by Amy Tan and All the Pretty Things by Edie Wadsworth
  4. DID NOT START: The Annotated Little Women by Louisa May Alcott, The Secret Keeper by Kate Morton, and Jane Austen for Dummies by Joan Klingel Ray
Thoughts: Womp, womp. So, I made a list in 2019 and completed it. 2020? Not so much. The three books I did read were all in January. Y'all, I'm laughing as I type it! However, the purpose of the list is to get books off my TBR that have been there for a while, so it was semi-successful in the sense that seven are gone. That sounds good, at least.


3. Re-read one book per month (12 total).
Progress: Re-read 20 books (not all pictured above)

Thoughts: Re-reading was less of a priority for me in 2020, partly due to the fact that I re-read so much in 2019. But the other reason? I used to primarily use audiobooks for re-reads and now that's my go-to format for new reads. That's something I'm totally fine with for this season of my life, and I don't see it changing much in 2021. 


4. Read one non-fiction book per month (12 total).
Progress: Finished 40 books (not all pictured above)

A few favorites:
  1. ESSAYS: My Southern Journey by Rick Bragg, I Miss You When I Blink by Mary Laura Philpott, and Late Migrations by Margaret Renkl 
  2. MEMOIRS: House Lessons by Erica Bauermeister, Stir by Jessica Fechtor, Maybe You Should Talk to Someone by Lori Gottlieb, Know My Name by Chanel Miller, and Open Book by Jessica Simpson
  3. PARENTING: The Busy Toddler's Guide to Actual Parenting by Susie Allison, Risen Motherhood by Emily Jensen and Laura Wifler, Memory-Making Mom by Jessica Smartt, and Parenting by Paul David Tripp
  4. SELF-HELP: The Lazy Genius Way by Kendra Adachi, Don't Overthink It by Anne Bogel, and Atomic Habits by James Clear
  5. SPIRITUAL: New Morning Mercies by Paul David Tripp and The Holy Bible
Thoughts: This is probably the biggest surprise of my 2020 reading life! I never expected to gravitate to so much non-fiction, a genre I don't feel like I've read much in recent years. I'd set the goal of one per month and never expected to read 3x that amount. I would honestly love to see this happen again in 2021!


5. Complete the Picky Pledge Challenge.
Alexa and I have done the Picky Pledge Challenge since 2015, but we've simplified it over time. We have 12 categories based on why we buy books, and our goal was to read one book from our TBR for each category. 
  1. FOR THE COVER | An Enchantment of Ravens by Margaret Rogerson
  2. BASED ON A REC | House Lessons by Erica Bauermeister
  3. FOR THE HOOK | Coming Home by Rosamunde Pilcher
  4. ON SALE | A Perfect Heritage by Penny Vincenzi
  5. NEXT IN SERIES | The Kingdom of Copper by S.A. Chakraborty
  6. FOR THE FORMAT | Ross Poldark by Winston Graham
  7. FOR THE AUTHOR | The Giver of Stars by Jojo Moyes
  8. GIFTED | Meg & Jo by Virginia Kantra
  9. PRE-ORDERED, HADN'T READ | What Happens in Paradise by Elin Hilderbrand
  10. BOUGHT 3+ YEARS AGO | The Real Jane Austen by Paula Byrne
  11. FOR THE HYPE | The Brutal Telling by Louise Penny
  12. FOR THE TOPIC | Risen Motherhood by Emily Jensen & Laura Wifler
Of these 12 books, 11 were on my TBR prior to 2020. For whatever reason, I struggled to remember what I'd purchased based on someone's recommendation so I went with a book that I bought in 2020 after hearing Annie talk about it on the From the Front Porch podcast. All in all, I'm happy to check these off my list!


6. Blog 2x per week.
My goal was to average 2 posts per week (~104 total for the year). That felt like a stretch for me, especially after taking several months away from blogging in 2019, while still being manageable. I want to be more consistent in this space, but I never want it to feel like a chore either. Although I had a few months where I only posted 5x total, it was offset by super-productive months like December. I met my goal and finished the year at 109 posts!

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Several years ago, Alexa and I would share very detailed posts with graphs highlighting our reading stats for the year. I wanted to make a few for 2020 because I noticed a few big changes in my reading life this year!


Tracking the source of what I read has always helped me balance review books, re-reading and my TBR. And while it may look like I took a huge chunk out of my TBR, there's a little more to the story. Of the 170 books I read, 108 were books on my TBR. Of those 108, 37 were books I already owned and 70 were books I bought in 2020. Whoops! 

One thing that isn't represented in the Source graph is how much I actually borrowed in 2020. I frequently bought a physical copy of book but then borrowed the audiobook from the library. I went through my reading log, and I there were almost 45 books that I categorized as "Bought / Borrowed" or "Owned / Borrowed." They're counted as TBR in my chart, but I heavily utilized my library's digital resources this year. 

As for the format, you'll notice that more than half of what I read in 2020 was on audio. That's a pretty significant shift in my reading habits! I used to primarily use audio for re-reads, but now I read so many new books that way. That format allowed me to get more done while still finding time to read. I could fold laundry, empty the dishwasher, get groceries, and finish a ton of books, too. I think the audio obsession is here to stay!


Finally, I've got this chart because I'm fascinated by the fact that non-fiction was my second most read genre in 2020. That's very unusual for me! I have no idea if it's because those books appealed to me more with everything going on in the world or if making non-fiction a priority reminded me of why I love the genre. I read more mysteries than normal, too, and that's a change I loved. I will be so curious to see what genres I gravitate toward in 2021.

Did you complete any bookish goals in 2020?

My Year in Goals {2020}

Dec 31, 2020


2020 has been a year. What is there to say about it that hasn't already been said? While I'm excited to move on to 2021, I want to look back on the past twelve months first. Since 2015, I've shared a series of posts that I call "My Year in ______" to highlight my favorite things from the year. It's one reason I always look forward to December! There were a lot of things I didn't love about 2020, but I am excited to spend the next week talking about some of the good things. Today, it's all about my goals – an entirely new post in this series!

Since goal planning was new for me in 2020, I wanted to spend some time reviewing my progress. I was worried that my PowerSheets Intentional Goal Planner would be a frivolous purchase that I'd abandon, but the opposite happened. I've accomplished so much this year! The process and product wasn't magical, but it did help me identify what I wanted to get done and what steps I needed to take to make it happen. 

There's been so much uncertainty this year, and I recognize that I'm fortunate to have just been inconvenienced by COVID-19. We've primarily dealt with disrupted plans and changes in our lifestyle. For so many, that hasn't been the case. My baby was born in February, so I intentionally set goals for my season of life. Many of them focused on our home and the people in it. When COVID hit, I didn't have to pivot very much and getting things done was comforting when so much has felt out of control. If you feel like you didn't learn (or do) anything new this year, I loved what Kendra wrote in this post: "You learned to live day after super hard day, and that's enough." I want to commemorate my progress, but I don't want you to be discouraged if your year looked different!


My word of the year was Nurture – a perfect choice that aligned with all of my goals and was very fitting for 2020. I nourished a baby, cared for the growth and development of both my sons, and I nurtured my faith, my marriage, my passions, and my habits. I had six big-picture goals – more like themes/categories, if you will – that I broke down into various monthly/quarterly/weekly mini goals and action steps that I could check off my list. 


Image sources: PhotosIce CreamBrothersPlannerQuotePlantsClocksDoorBible

Some people might say that it isn't a goal if it can't really be measured or completed, but I disagree. The things that matter most deeply to me are often areas where I can make significant changes but will never truly be "finished." I've got the goals listed below, followed by some of the things I accomplished in each area. It isn't a comprehensive list, but I loved reviewing past tending lists and Goals blog posts for my progress:

1. Revitalize my faith through daily time with God. 
It had been a long time since I'd prioritized my faith. I always said I wanted to deepen my walk with God, but my actions didn't reflect that desire. I'm very proud of the changes that I made in this area of my life in 2020!

Progress I made:
 Finished reading the Bible in one year
• Read a devotional every morning
• Read several non-fiction books about faith

2. Nurture my relationship with Nick and our sons.
My relationship with Nick and our two boys is the next most important thing in my life. With so much time at home, I had the perfect opportunity to nurture those relationships and adapt to our new normal as a family of four.

Progress I made:
• Went on several family trips to the mountains
• Got our home ready for the baby
• Celebrated nine years of marriage
• Date nights at home with Nick
• One-on-one dates with my big boy
• Weekly library visits with my boys
• Read seven non-fiction parenting-related books
• Organized different areas of our home

3. Grow in my knowledge and stewardship of our finances.
This is the goal I made the least amount of progress on – at least compared to what I'd planned to do. But it's encouraging to see that I still made small steps towards my goal of being more attuned to our finances!

Progress I made:
• Tracking spending on Goodbudget
• Read Dave Ramsey's finance book
• Completed a three-month no-spend challenge
• Met our savings goal for 2020

4. Invest time in the hobbies that bring me joy. 
I wasn't sure what reading and blogging would look like with a new baby, and I'm so thrilled that both were still a big part of my life! Thank goodness for audiobooks, early bedtimes, and the right amount of motivation. 

Progress I made:
• Blogged 2x per week, on average
• Reviewed all books read in 2020 (except December)
• Read 170 books in 2020
• Completed my re-read and non-fiction goals
• Culled my bookshelves and Goodreads
• Made seasonal TBR lists
• Stayed up-to-date in my reading journal and bookish log
• Set up my 2021 reading journal and bookish log
• Wrote blog posts that were important to me, like this My Year In feature
• Went on a "reading weekend" getaway with my sister

5. Create purposeful monthly, weekly, and daily routines. 
One of the biggest thing that came up in my prep work in 2020 was my desire for more routine. Having established new rhythms this year, I feel like a different person! This was something I truly needed in my life.

Progress I made:
 Monthly review and prep sessions
• Implemented weekly cleaning schedule 
 Weekly meal planning and grocery pickup
• Began daily school routine for my big boy
• Reviewed planner in bed every night
• Checked in on my Tending List every week
• Prepped my planner for the new year
• 2021 prep work and goal setting

6. Record and preserve our family memories. 
The goal I found most daunting was 1) culling and organizing digital photos and developing habits to maintain it moving forward, and 2) filling out childhood journals for my baby and big boy. I can't believe they're done!

Progress I made:
• Culled and organized all photos from 2016-2019
• Backed up all photos to an external hard drive and the cloud
• Culled 10,000+ photos from my phone 
• Designed and ordered annual photo calendar
• Completed Trimesters, Birth, 1st Weeks - 11 Months in my big boy's and baby's childhood journals
• Sent baby announcements

For me, PowerSheets were worth the investment. I did the work, but they provided the structure I needed to begin to make changes in my life. In the past, I've tried to make SMART goals. But those were often discouraging for me because I'd get hung up on what I didn't accomplish rather than what I did. I loved that this gave me the freedom and encouragement I needed to set goals in whatever format/wording worked for me.

I had a mix of goals that were hard to truly measure (like revitalizing my faith and nurturing my family relationships) with more easily "completed" goals (such as creating routines and preserving our photos and recording memories through journaling), and that worked well for me. I'm currently finalizing my next set of goals, which I'll blog about next week. You'll notice a few 2020 goals reappear alongside new areas of focus for 2021!

Did you set any goals for 2020?
What progress did you make?

My Year in Adventures {2020}

Dec 30, 2020


2020 has been a year. What is there to say about it that hasn't already been said? While I'm excited to move on to 2021, I want to look back on the past twelve months first. Since 2015, I've shared a series of posts that I call "My Year in ______" to highlight my favorite things from the year. It's one reason I always look forward to December! There were a lot of things I didn't love about 2020, but I am excited to spend the next week talking about some of the good things. Today, it's all about adventures! • Adventures in 20172018, and 2019

This is typically my final post of the series, but I've added something new to the schedule this year. We'll see how I like it tomorrow! Regardless, this is my favorite post because I love to look back on my memories of the past year. As I've said previously, this isn't a comprehensive list of adventures – just 18 favorite moments captured on camera. When I think about 2020, I immediately picture all the time we spent at home. I might be tempted to say we didn't have many adventures, but that's wrong. We created our own celebrations!


CELINE DION CONCERT • In April 2019, Celine Dion announced that was coming to Atlanta. My dad bought tickets for me, my mom, and my sister to see her this January, and we had so much fun! My only real 2020 event.

LAST TRIP AS FAMILY OF THREE • Before the baby was born, we took one last trip to the mountains as a family of three. It was the perfect way to soak up extra time with our big boy before life changed so much!

WELCOMING OUR NEW BABY • On February 7, our baby entered the world and changed our lives forever. He's been the biggest blessing of 2020, and I've loved watching the relationship between my boys blossom this year.


GOING BOWLING • Nick is a Leap Day baby, and he was excited to have a birthday this year. We went bowling – an adventure that was close to home, a treat for our big boy, and something to check off our 20 in 2020 list.

BACKYARD CAMPING • This was another item on our family bucket list, and it was easy to do – even with all the changes COVID-19 brought. Nick and our big boy made s'mores and slept in the tent one night. It was adorable!

BFF LONG-DISTANCE MOVIE NIGHT • Kelly and I did this early in quarantine when we both wanted to re-watch Little Women on the same day, and then we made it a monthly tradition. It's been so much fun!


DRIVE-THRU FARM • We'd planned to take our big boy to the zoo, but that got postponed due to the pandemic. A local farm had a small "feed the animals from your car" experience, so we went + got homemade ice cream!

OUR BIG BOY IS FOUR • I still can't believe our big boy is four years old. We didn't have a party, but I decorate with rain forest decor (per his request) and loved celebrating him all day long. It's a joy to be his mama.

CELEBRATING JULY 4TH • Since we were home for July 4th, we got to experience our neighborhood's amazing golf cart parade, wave to our neighbors, and enjoy the snow cone truck that drove by at the end. 


DRIVE-THRU DINOSAUR EXHIBIT • This drive-thru exhibit sounded perfect for our big boy who loves all things animals and dinosaurs. My parents kept the baby, so we enjoyed one-on-one time with him out of the house.

SISTER BOOKSTORE DATES • My sister is officially a book nerd now, and it's the best thing ever. We have had many bookstore dates, and she totally derailed all the progress I'd been making on my TBR. No greats thought!

OUR BIG BOY LEARNS TO SWIM • Our big boy took ISR self-rescue lessons, which teaches kids to swim and float. Lessons last ten minutes a day, five days a week, for 4-6 weeks. It was a commitment but so worth it!


OUR BIG BOY STARTS SCHOOL • We signed our big boy up for an amazing virtual program that a local preschool was offering. His teacher has done so much work to make it special, and it's added a bit more structure to our day.

ALL THE OUTDOOR DAYS • So many of our 2020 adventures occurred outside – going on a walk as a family, enjoying the neighborhood playground, splashing in our cheap blowup pool from Target, and sitting on our porch.

CORN MAZE & PUMPKIN PATCH • In October, we enjoyed a local corn maze and pumpkin patch that also had a petting zoo, slides, hay rides, and other fun fall activities. This has become a yearly tradition I look forward to!


ANIMAL SANCTUARY • Many of the adventures we'd planned for 2020 had to change due to the pandemic, but I was so excited to find an animal sanctuary we could visit. We loved it so much we walked through twice!

HALLOWEEN FUN • Our big boy declared he was going to be Batman this year and little brother would be Robin, and it was the cutest thing ever. Trick-or-treating looked a little different, but it was still so much fun.

READING WEEKEND WITH MY SISTER • My sister and I went to the mountains together for a weekend in November and had the best time reading, eating, online shopping, and sitting around. I loved our little getaway.

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I've already mentioned our family's 20 in 2020 bucket list, and I wanted to recap how we did since those certainly count as adventures! About halfway through the year, when it was clear that COVID-19 wasn't going anywhere, I had to re-work our list. So, you'll see what we had planned ahead of time – and how we pivoted! 

1. GO: strawberry or apple picking. to the pumpkin patch. ✓
2. TRY: bowling. ✓
3. READ: this Bible and this book about prayer. chapter books. ✓
4. PLAY: board games once a month. ✓
5. EAT: a picnic in our backyard. ✓
6. EXPLORE: the hiking trails near our house. ✓
7. MAKE: a bird house. ✓
8. RIDE: on the Blue Ridge Scenic Railway. through the dinosaur exhibit. ✓ 
9. SEND: mail to our three great-grandmothers. ✓
10. COOK: for someone else. ✓
11. SEE: marine life at the Georgia Aquarium. our big boy learn to swim. ✓
12. CREATE: a new family tradition. ✓
13. DO: a nature scavenger hunt. ✓
14. GIVE BACK: by volunteering at our church's community celebration. through tithing. ✓
15. GROW: our savings by 20%. ✓
16. TRAVEL: somewhere we've never been. to the mountains. ✓
17. ENJOY: camping in the backyard. ✓
18. VISIT: Noah Ark's Animal Sanctuary. Yellow River Animal Sanctuary. ✓
19. WATCH: a movie at the drive-in theater. in our pretend "movie theater" at home. ✓
20. BE: thankful. Start a family gratitude jar. Make a Thankful Turkey. ✓

Did you have any adventures in 2020?
Here's to new beginnings in 2021.
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