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Five Years of Favorites: The Lessons (+ Giveaway!)

Dec 16, 2016

Well, my blogiversary celebration is coming to a close. I've had fun looking back at the past five years of obsessions, books, blog posts and memories. And it seemed fitting to end by talking about the lessons I've learned! It's hard to put into words everything that blogging has taught me - or the things I've taken to heart from the books that I've read. But here are the five that first came to mind:

This is probably the most obvious lesson, but I've got to start somewhere! I've learned so many new skills because of my blog. From creating graphics to using HTML, I've gained a lot of practical knowledge in the past five years. It even spilled over into my "real life" job, which involved social media. Blogging always gave my ideas for how to better market our company! I'm certainly not an expert, but I never imagined I'd know how to do things like make my own graphics or fix HTML issues with my posts.

Have you ever been talking to someone you don't know very well and discovered that you both love the same book? It's an instant connection! I've had it happen in real life, and I love that moment so much. It typically sparks a longer conversation where you compare your favorites, offer recommendations and get lost in the world of books. With blogging, that experience has increased tenfold. I touched on it yesterday, but I've learned that a shared love of books can lead to real, meaningful friendships.

While there's so much more to me than So Obsessed With, I will readily admit that this blog has been a huge part of my life the past five years. But it's been the best kind of commitment! It's taught me the value of a long-term project - giving me the opportunity to grow something over time and cultivate it into the kind of thing I'm proud to call mine. It's not always my main priority, but it's certainly helped give me focus. Every time I think about quitting, I remember how much I love having an outlet for my thoughts!

I've been a reader for my whole life, so I already knew that books could teach you things and take you to new worlds. But I didn't truly realize the way books can help you grow - open your mind to new ideas, introduce you to cultures you're unfamiliar with, and give you the opportunity to relate to people you've never met. Books remind me that everyone has a story. Books can teach you about others, but they can teach you about yourself, too. It's an amazing feeling when you're able to relate to a character and see yourself in their story!

And finally, this is the lesson I'm probably the most thankful for! I've always love reading and words, but I don't know that I would have described myself as a creative person before I started blogging. But now, I feel like my mind is always spinning with ideas for posts. Whether I'm dreaming up discussion post topics, pondering new ways to push books on other readers or brainstorming collaborations with other bloggers, blogging has sparked my creativity like nothing else. I love the thrill of a new idea and the act of bringing it to fruition.


Well, I hope you've had fun revisiting the past five years with me! I have no idea what the future holds, but I'm so thankful that this blog has been such a huge part of my life so far. If you're considering starting a blog, I'd tell you to go for it! It's not always easy and can definitely take work, but the journey has been so worth it for me. I can't imagine my life without the people and books that blogging has brought into it!

And as a thank you to everyone who has supported So Obsessed With, I've got a little giveaway to celebrate:

GIVEAWAY #1
One Book of Your Choice from Five Years of Favorites: The Books
Open Internationally / Ends 12.31.16
Book must be available on Amazon or Book Depository.

GIVEAWAY #2 
One Audiobook of Your Choice from the Graphic Below
Open to U.S. Only / Ends 12.31.16


Audiobook Options:


Not Pictured (But Also Options!):
Lady Thief by A.C. Gaughen
Dark Triumph by Robin LaFevers
Crown of Midnight, Heir of Fire or Queen of Shadows by Sarah J. Maas
The Piper's Son by Melina Marchetta
Froi of the Exiles or Quintana of Charyn by Melina Marchetta
Days of Blood and Starlight or Dreams of Gods and Monsters by Laini Taylor

Five Years of Favorites: The Memories

Dec 15, 2016


Today is my official blogiversary! On December 15, 2011, I hit publish on a post titled "A Case of Obsession." I'd been toying with the idea of starting a blog for a few months, and it was finally time to take the plunge. After discovering Goodreads the year before + filling my RSS reader with tons of book blogs, I knew I wanted to be a part of this community. But I never expected to love it the way that I do.

Creating a blog was a small decision that has brought so many lovely things into my life! And what better way to celebrate than to share some of my favorite bookish memories? As I started listing out of my favorite moments, I noticed a general pattern. So, I grouped all the random little moments from the past five years into five big things that will always have a place in my heart:


1. Attending Book Signings
I'm so thankful to have had the opportunity to meet many of my favorite authors. There are two independent bookstores that are within driving distance for me, and they frequently host incredible signings that I've been able to attend. I know just how lucky I am to live near them both!

Through Avid Bookshop and Little Shop of Stories, I've been able to meet Colleen Oakley, Rainbow Rowell, David Levithan, Tahereh Mafi, Veronica Rossi, Cynthia Hand, Brodi Ashton, Sarah J. Maas, Susan Dennard, Gayle Forman, Stephanie Perkins, and Markus Zusak. And Emily Giffin at a local Barnes & Noble was my very first book signing - an experience I won't forget!

But those are the only signed books on my shelves! I've been blessed with incredible friends who have sent me signed books by Jojo Moyes, Emery Lord, Jennifer Donnelly, A.C. Gaughen, Heather Demetrios, Lauren Graham, and Jenny Han. I've received some signed books from generous authors AND through bookish events, too, but I'll talk about those in a second.

Book signings weren't even on my radar prior to blogging, but now I always keep an eye out for authors coming to my city! I love getting to meet the authors who have created worlds, characters and stories that have impacted me. It's so cool to get to hear them talk about their inspiration and their process. From listening to Markus Zusak tell a hilarious story from his childhood to fangirling with Tahereh Mafi about Team Warner, book signings have definitely been one of the best parts of the past five years.


2. Interacting with Favorite Authors
Before I started blogging, I'd never thought very much about the authors responsible for the books that I read. Well, except Jane Austen. I've spent a lot of time thinking about her! Other than that, however, I had favorite authors and would eagerly await new releases from them - but that was about it. I never thought about meeting them or getting to interacting with them online!

Attending book signings changed that for me, but social media did, too. Existing in this bookish community and being social online has put me in contact with authors in a whole new way. Being able to tag authors in a tweet where I'm gushing about their book AND having them respond or favorite it makes me giddy.

And that's just talking to them online! You can probably imagine my INSANE level of excitement when Liza Palmer sent me a handwritten note and signed copy of Nowhere but Home. Y'all, I think I died and went to heaven! When Erin Lindsay McCabe sent me a signed copy of I Shall Be Near to You, I squealed. And I'll never forget the time I mentioned I hadn't read a mermaid book yet and Elizabeth Fama offered to send me a copy of Monstrous Beauty. The kind note from Bethany Chase that was tucked inside the ARC of Results May Vary made my day, and I was overjoyed when Colleen Oakley sent me Close Enough to Touch

It's so exciting to be able to tell an author how much their book meant to me! I love fangirling over books, pushing them on other readers and to see other people discover authors that I'm so obsessed with.


3. Traveling to Bookish Conferences
I can't forget to mention Book Expo America and YALLFest! In May 2014, I went to BEA with Betty. It was one of my very favorite things I've gotten to do because of blogging, for so many reasons. I recapped all my memories on the blog - Part I and Part II - if you're interested. 

I loved the bookish part of BEA, but spending time with my friends was definitely the highlight. Late night laughter at Insomnia Cookies, watching Rocky, sitting in a massive line waiting for Sarah J. Maas - it was a memorable few days, to say the least. And while I'm not sure that the event itself was actually worth it, I'd highly recommend taking advantage of any opportunity you have to meet the bloggers you've become friends with.

After having such a great time at BEA, I started scoping out other bookish events. I came across YALLFest, a Young Adult book festival in Charleston, and everything fell into place for me to go with Alexa. The event itself wasn't our favorite, but we had SO much fun hanging out together. Eating delicious Southern food, calling Kelly to share our adventures, singing along with Taylor Swift's 1989 album in the car, staying up late talking about everything - I wouldn't trade those memories for the world!

At both of these events, I was able to get books signed by Sarah J. Maas, Karen Abbott, Alexandra Bracken, Leigh BardugoLaini Taylor and more. My collection just keeps growing!


4. Finding Friends Who Get Me 
When I started blogging, I didn't really picture myself becoming friends with other bloggers. I assumed I'd find people to chat books with, of course, but I wasn't expecting them to be "real life" friends. My main motivation for blogging was that I didn't feel creatively challenged at work and wanted an outlet to express myself. Combining that with a love of books and a little bit of boredom led me here.

I'd been on Goodreads and subscribed to a number of blogs, but it wasn't until I started commenting on blogs and being active on Twitter that I started to truly get to know people. Before I knew it, I was texting with people - and not just about books! I'm so thankful for blogging for the people it's brought into my life. These friends are at the heart of all of my favorite bookish memories from the last five years. The pictures above are some of the gifts I've received from my friends - proof they totally get me!

Alexa is one of the kindest people I've ever met, and she's always there to chat about or life, to plot new blog ideas and to fangirl over books. She inspires me in so many ways, but especially as a blogger. There's a reason basically all of my favorite blogging collaborations involve her!

Betty never fails to bring a smile to my face and make me laugh with her crazy antics. She's willing to give me mom advice and answer my dumb questions. She makes it all look so effortless as she raises three of the cutest babies I've ever seen - and she makes it seem like her house is always having fun!

Cassie is someone I talk to every single day, without fail. She can be feisty and a voice of reason, make me laugh and calm me down when I want to cry. She's full of ideas, works hard to make her dreams a reality, and loves people (and pupperz!) fiercely. She lets me tell her what to read, encourages my Starbucks addiction and needs to move to Georgia like yesterday.

Ellice is my fellow Southerner, even though she still doesn't live close enough to me! She's sweet and generous and has given me some of the most thoughtful gifts I've ever received. I hope I'm able to meet her one day!

Estelle is so creative and such a great sounding board when something's on my mind. I love watching her tackle and succeed at anything she puts her mind to! She inspires me with the way she challenges herself - with work, with fitness and with the things she's passionate about. 

Judith once surprised me with a Dutch copy of Pride and Prejudice - her thoughtfulness made me cry! Founding the Recaptains with her, Betty and Amber was so much fun, even if I was the worst recapper ever. I miss seeing her blog posts in my reader! 

Kelly is the Sicilian sass I didn't know I needed in my life. She never fails to keep me on my toes! She's strong and independent, and I know she'll always have my back. But she's got a soft side, too - the way she's there whenever I need to vent and supports me through thick and thin. She shows up for the people she loves. 

Laura is a delight to chat with on Twitter and has great taste in books, but I think my favorite thing about her is that she's as enthusiastic about the movie Belle as I am. (But seriously, you need to watch it.)

Lauren is a bright spot in my blog reader! Her creativity and consistency with her blog inspire me, and I'm constantly bookmarking her posts to save them. I haven't gotten to meet her yet, but hopefully someday!

Lindsey is my historical fiction and planner loving friend. I'm so glad got to meet her when she drove through Georgia because chatting with her over dinner was like hanging out with a friend I've known for years. 

Lisa is one of the most fun people to chat with! She's a self-confessed unabashed nerd, but she's also a thoughtful friend, awesome crafter and hardworking mama.

Magan may not be blogging anymore, but I love keeping up with her little family through Instagram. The way she's opened her heart and home to others is one of the most beautiful things in the world. And I wish she lived nearby so I could hire her to take all of my family photos!

Morgan is one of my favorite people to fangirl over things with! She's recommended so many great books to me, leaves the most thoughtful blog comments, has sent me some very sweet surprises in the mail and is definitely on my list of people I sincerely hope I get to meet one day.

Rachel is someone that I got to know a little better last year, and I was excited to find out how many things we have in common! Our shared love of Audrey Hepburn and Anne of Green Gables are two of the biggest, but it doesn't end there. 

As you can probably tell, I've been fortunate enough to meet some fantastic people through this blog. Books may have brought us together, but there are so many more reasons that we became friends. And this isn't even an exhaustive list of all the people who've impacted me these past five years!


5. Nurturing A Book-Loving Baby
Finally, I had to talk about my dream of raising a book-loving baby! It took two years of trying before I finally got pregnant, but my sweet boy was worth every minute of waiting. And while he's not quite old enough yet to appreciate all the books I'm reading to him, books have already been a part of his life.

Long before I had a baby, I discovered the Baby Lit books. I sent my mom photos of them, picked them up when I was browsing in bookstores... basically anxiously awaited the day that I could finally buy them. So, you can probably imagine how emotional I was when my parents bought them for me after I found out I was pregnant. I took a photo of my giant pile of books to announce my pregnancy on Instagram - the start to the little library I've had so much fun building.

In December last year, Nick and I found out we were having a boy. To celebrate, we finally went and bought a few outfits for the baby - it was like things started to truly feel real! But that's not all we did. After leaving my doctor's office, Nick took me to Ikea and bought me new bookshelves. He knew how much I wanted them, and updating my library was the perfect pre-baby activity.

My friends at work threw me a book-themed baby shower. Everyone who came brought a book in lieu of a card, and I honestly can't tell you how touched I was by the whole thing. My friend made a wreath and banners from the pages of picture books and hung quotes from famous children's books on the wall. I felt so loved by everyone who was there that day!

And finally, I can't forget about the baby shower in a box! I looked outside my door one day and spotted a GIANT box with my name on it. When I opened it up, I discovered a bunch of gifts from all of my blogging friends! Y'all, I cried. Since we all live too far away from each other to get together in person, they sent the baby shower to me. I get emotional all over again just thinking about it.

So, needless to say, books have played a huge role in my life during the past five years. And although I haven't blogged as much this year, I still enjoy this space. I love the thrill of finding a new favorite book, the excitement when an author replies to my tweet, the anticipation of an upcoming book signing on my calendar, the joy of making new friends and the hope that I'll be able to raise a child who loves to read. I've made a lot of memories these past five years, and I look forward to so many more!

Check back tomorrow for the last day of my celebration
Five Years of Favorites: The Lessons! 
(And a giveaway, too.)

Five Years of Favorites: The Blog

Dec 14, 2016

My blogiversary celebration, Five Years of Favorites, continues today with a look back at some of my blog posts! I've got five categories of posts - Reviews, Discussions, Features, Collaborations and Top Ten Tuesdays. I featured five of my personal favorite posts for each, plus added links to the five most popular. 

I apologize in advance for the length of the post, but I just had too much fun revisiting all the work I've put into this space. Five years ago, I couldn't have imagined that this blog would become what it is now. I can't say enough how thankful I am for the opportunity to create content I'm proud of and to belong to this community!


1. The Lynburn Legacy Series by Sarah Rees Brennan
Although it's a lot more than I typically write, I think this is probably my favorite book review I've ever written. I loved taking a three-sentence summary and turning it into a list of 11 reasons this series is a must read.

2. I'll Meet You There by Heather Demetrios
The heroine in this novel loves to create collages from random items, so my review highlighted the bits and pieces that make up the book if you look close enough. I like that the format was inspired by the book.

3. Under a Painted Sky by Stacey Lee
This is another review where I got creative with the format! For this one, I went through 26 things (one for every letter of the alphabet) that readers will find inside this story. I was surprised by how quickly I thought of things!

4. Open Road Summer by Emery Lord
I made a list of reasons that I'm so obsessed with this story and included a quote from the book that corresponded to each reason. I felt like I really captured the book in my review, which is always satisfying.

5. Attachments by Rainbow Rowell
Finally, this is another review with a list! Are you noticing the pattern here? I'm a sucker for alliteration, so it was fun coming up with five reasons (all starting with the letter F) to drop everything and read this book.

{Most Popular Reviews}
in order, excluding any featured above

1. The Royal We by Heather Cocks and Jessica Morgan
2. Orphan Queen by Jodi Meadows
3. At Home with Audrey by Luca Dotti
4. Along for the Ride by Sarah Dessen
5. The Bronze Horseman Trilogy by Paullina Simons



To celebrate 200 years of Pride and Prejudice, I spent a week talking about my lifelong love for this classic. I admitted to collecting copies of the book - something that started accidentally and grew into an addiction. My collection has grown since then, but I love that this post highlights the personal aspect of buying books.


This post was so time consuming to write, but I'm so glad I went for it. I'm a big fan of non-fiction, and I loved sharing advice on how to find the right non-fiction for you. I like when I'm able to talk about stuff that's not discussed as often by other bloggers, especially when it's something I'm passionate about!


While working on my post about my favorite planning tools last year, I had the idea to write about channeling your creativity. I was feeling inspired and full of post ideas last year, and I love that this captures those feelings. Blogging has definitely helped me become more creative, and this reflects that development.


I wanted to write more personal posts on the blog, and this one post came out of that desire. I went to the beach for a week with my best friend, and I came home thinking a lot about friendship. Writing about the journey that led to my friendship with Lauren was cathartic - and reminded me of just how thankful I am for her!

This is, quite honestly, probably my favorite thing I've ever written on the blog. It's so long (basically an essay!), but I loved every minute spent writing it. Sharing what the Anne of Green Gables series taught me about romance helped me illustrate the profound impact that one book can have on a reader.

{Most Popular Discussions}
in order, excluding any featured above



If I could only keep one feature, I'd want it to be Buy the Book! It combines two of my favorite things: gift guides and quotes. The name is a play on "by the book" since all of the gifts in these posts come directly from quotes in the book featured. I've shared six so far, and this one for Happiness for Beginners is my favorite.

I wanted to start a new feature last year and ended up with Tune in Tonight. I love talking about TV shows (more proof here!), and my very first TV show obsession was Alias. Working on this post inspired me to rewatch all five seasons - and sparked so many discussions with fellow fans on Twitter! There's only one Sydney Bristow.


I love sharing seasonal So Obsessed With posts filled with things I'm currently loving, but I was excited when I realized that I could post "mini" editions highlighting specific obsessions. My favorite so far is my post about The Folio Society - the expensive (but gorgeous) book editions that I'm now carefully collecting!


After resolving to create a new feature in 2014, I got the idea for Series Speed Date. Do you ever have a moment where inspiration strikes and everything just flows out of your brain? That was this feature! I love reading series and was thrilled to come up with a creative way to share a review for a series.

In 2013, I wrote a post called The Classics Conundrum. I talked about why I enjoy classics and shared eight tips for reading them. I loved the feedback on the post, and it sparked the idea for this feature where bloggers recommended their favorite classics! It was so fun - and introduced ME to classics I've never read before.

{Most Popular Features}
in order, excluding any featured above




If you'd told me before I started blogging that I'd start reading fantasy (and end up loving it), I would have thought you were insane. I love how blogging has expanded my reading taste! This event with Alexa from Alexa Loves Books was a joy to create. My favorite post was A Book for Every Fantasy Reader.

Alexa from Alexa Loves Books and I had been talking about our book buying and reading habits. We both wanted to make changes for the better, and The Picky Pledge was the result. We've written quarterly check-ins, discussion posts and taken a detailed look at our reading stats - and this post is my favorite of them all.

I became so obsessed with Nowhere but Home in 2014, and Cassie from The Casserole fell in love after I recommended it to her, too. We wanted to share our love for Liza Palmer by hosting a fun event to celebrate her 2015 release, Girl Before a Mirror, and this was the result. My favorite was the music!


This event holds a very special place in my heart! I loved celebrating my all-time favorite series with Alexa from Alexa Loves Books and Rachel from Hello, Chelly. I already mentioned my favorite post (in the Discussions section), but my second favorite was my re-read review of the series. This series fostered my love of reading!


With the explosion of book tags around the blogosphere, it seemed only fitting to create one for my favorite fantasy series with the blogger who introduced me to them in the first place - Alexa from Alexa Loves Books! I love the tag because I feel like we nailed the categories, and we had the best time collaborating.

{Most Popular Collaborations}
in order, excluding any featured above




This post was one of the first times (at least that I can remember) where I got more personal on the blog. I enjoyed reflecting on how books have been such a huge part of my life, even before I was blogging, and sharing ten of my favorite book-related memories. And my list has only grown in the past few years!


I absolutely love reading love stories! I had so much choosing the types, the feelings and the moments that I adore when I'm reading. Plus, I'll be honest - I had way too much fun pairing each item on my list with a gif that illustrated each one from some of my favorite literary-inspired movies.


For as long as I can remember, I've kept a "quote book" - a notebook filled with my favorite quotes. Whether they're from famous people or books I've read, I love jotting down words that have had an impact on me. So it's no surprise that I love any Top Ten Tuesday topic involving quotes (like this one and this one, too).


Even though it's nerdy to admit, I always enjoyed picking out what classes I'd take each semester in college. I've had good and bad professors, but my favorite class was about a subject I adored: Jane Austen. This post was my attempt at creating a syllabus for my own version of that class - separated into units with required and optional reading + film screenings.


This was one of the first posts I wrote after taking a long break from the blog earlier this year, so I have a special place in my heart for it. I wrote it after a period of time where I wasn't reading as much, so it was nice to take the time to reflect on why reading is so important to me. Books have truly changed my life!

{Most Popular Top Ten Tuesdays}
in order, excluding any featured above


Check back tomorrow for
Five Years of Favorites: The Memories!

Five Years of Favorites: The Books

Dec 13, 2016

Welcome back to my blogiversary celebration - Five Years of Favorites! Today's post is all about the books - the ones that kept me up late, left me swooning, made me cry, have numerous highlighted passages, and are filled with characters that feel real to me. Although it was incredibly difficult, I chose my five favorite books from each year that I've been blogging. And because I'm me, I listed five honorable mentions, too. 

If you've been reading this blog for a while, you won't be surprised by most of the titles you'll see featured here. In fact, I've got a feeling you've probably already seen me rave and recommend all of them before. Clicking on each title will take you to my review (or Goodreads), so I used quotes from the books as little teasers. If you've read one of these books in the past five years because of me, I'd love to hear about it!


“Do you think people have noticed that I'm around?”
“I notice when you're not. Does that count?”
Saving Francesca by Melina Marchetta

“Of course it is happening inside your head, Harry,
but why on earth should that mean that it is not real?”

When I read a book, I put in all the imagination I can, 
so that it is almost like writing the book as well as reading it - 
or rather, it is like living it. It makes reading so much more exciting, 
but I don't suppose many people try to do it.
I Capture the Castle by Dodie Smith

There are moments that you'll remember for the rest of your life 
and there are moments that you think you'll remember for the rest of your life, 
and it's not often they turn out to be the same moment.
The Scorpio Races by Maggie Stiefvater 

“She craved a presence beside her, solid. 
Fingertips light at the nape of her neck and a voice meeting hers in the dark. 
Someone who would wait with an umbrella to walk her home in the rain, 
and smile like sunshine when he saw her coming. Who would dance with her on her balcony, 
keep his promises and know her secrets, and make a tiny world wherever he was, 
with just her and his arms and his whisper and her trust.”

Honorable Mentions:  
The Pillars of the Earth by Ken Follett, Unbroken by Laura Hillenbrand, Grave Mercy by Robin LaFevers, Jellicoe Road by Melina Marchetta and Code Name Verity by Elizabeth Wein


“Then you appear, through the trees, guiding your mule as he pulls a tree limb. 
Like a soldier back from battle, you fill my vision. 
You're a flood, a baptism I'd forgotten, and the force of you leaves me breathless.” 

“To know what a person has done, and to know who a person is, are very different things.” 
Burial Rites by Hannah Kent

“You only get one life. It’s actually your duty to live it as fully as possible.” 
Me Before You by Jojo Moyes

“The thing about someone knowing you better than you know yourself 
is that you can’t shut off their knowledge when it hits too close to home.” 
Nowhere but Home by Liza Palmer

“So, what if, instead of thinking about solving your whole life, 
you just think about adding additional good things. One at a time. 
Just let your pile of good things grow.” 
Attachments by Rainbow Rowell

Honorable Mentions: 
Longbourn by Jo Baker, The Girl of Fire and Thorns Series by Rae Carson, Crown of Midnight by Sarah J. Maas, Quintana of Charyn by Melina Marchetta and Fangirl by Rainbow Rowell


“Put the jerk in the south wing, you won't see him for weeks at a time. 
Or lock him in the attic. The law will not be on your side, but literary precedent will.” 
Unspoken by Sarah Rees Brennan

“She was the heir of ash and fire, and she would bow to no one.” 
Heir of Fire by Sarah J. Maas

“He would have told her - he would have said, it matters not if you are here or there, 
for I see you before me every moment. I see you in the light of the water, 
in the swaying of the young trees in the spring wind. I see you in the shadows of the great oaks, 
I hear your voice in the cry of the owl at night. You are the blood in my veins, 
and the beating of my heart. You are my first waking thought, and my last sigh before sleeping. 
You are - you are bone of my bone, and breath of my breath.” 
Daughter of the Forest by Juliet Marillier

“I know at that moment what he's given me and it isn't a chair. 
It's an invitation, a welcome, the knowledge that I am accepted here. 
He hasn't given me a place to sit. He's given me a place to belong.” 
The Sea of Tranquility by Katja Millay

 “I've come to realize that resentment is malignant. 
That it starts small and festers. That it grows wild and unfettered inside of you 
until it's so expansive that it has worked its way into the furthest, 
deepest parts of you and holds on for dear life.” 
After I Do by Taylor Jenkins Reid

Honorable Mentions: 
I'll Meet You There by Heather Demetrios, Station Eleven by Emily St. John Mandel, I Shall Be Near to You by Erin Lindsay McCabe, Before I Go by Colleen Oakley and Girl Before a Mirror by Liza Palmer


“Granny then said that the real trick of life was that 
almost no one is entirely a shit and almost no one is entirely not a shit. 
The hard part of life is keeping as much on the not-a-shit side as one can.”

“But the things we remember are what we hold on to,
 and what we hold on to becomes the story of our lives. 
We only get one story. And I am determined to make mine a good one.”
Happiness for Beginners by Katherine Center

“I fell in love with a person, not a prince; the rest is just circumstance.”
The Royal We by Heather Cocks and Jessica Morgan

“My life feels like a book left out on the porch, and the wind blows the pages faster and faster,
 turning always toward a new chapter faster than I can stop to read it.” 
These is My Words by Nancy Turner

“Instead of trying and failing, Delia never tried. 
She told herself that failure was inevitable and she'd only look silly in the process. 
It was fear, cloaked in rationalisations and self-deprecation.”
It's Not Me, It's You by Mhairi McFarlane

Honorable Mentions: 
All the Light We Cannot See by Anthony Doerr, Princess of Thorns by Stacey Jay, Under a Painted Sky by Stacey Lee, Queen of Shadows by Sarah J. Maas and Unequal Affections by Lara Ormison



“Most people muddled through events and only in retrospect realized their significance.” 
Life After Life by Kate Atkinson

“I would have come for you. And if I couldn't walk, I'd crawl to you, 
and no matter how broken we were, we'd fight our way out together-knives drawn, pistols blazing. Because that's what we do. We never stop fighting.”
Crooked Kingdom by Leigh Bardugo

“To the stars who listen— and the dreams that are answered.”
A Court of Mist and Fury by Sarah J. Maas

“You won't find someone who treats you as you should be treated 
until you start to believe you are worth the ones you want, 
the ones who aren't asking you to do any work. 
Find the man who appreciates you at your best, 
not one who confirms your worst suspicions about yourself.”
Who's That Girl? by Mhairi McFarlane 

 “You don't need to be gifted with a blade. You are your own best weapon.” 
The Winner's Kiss by Marie Rutkoski

Honorable Mentions: 
Results May Vary by Bethany Chase, Empire of Storms by Sarah J. Maas, One True Loves by Taylor Jenkins Reid, Cartwheeling in Thunderstorms by Katherine Rundell and The Hating Game by Sally Thorne

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