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Aug 13, 2014

Landline by Rainbow Rowell

Release Date: July 8, 2014
Publisher: Macmillan | St. Martin's Press
Pages: 308 pages
Source & Format: ARC from Alexa
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Summary (from Goodreads)
Georgie McCool knows her marriage is in trouble. That it’s been in trouble for a long time. She still loves her husband, Neal, and Neal still loves her, deeply — but that almost seems besides the point now.

Maybe that was always besides the point.

Two days before they’re supposed to visit Neal’s family in Omaha for Christmas, Georgie tells Neal that she can’t go. She’s a TV writer, and something’s come up on her show; she has to stay in Los Angeles. She knows that Neal will be upset with her — Neal is always a little upset with Georgie — but she doesn’t expect to him to pack up the kids and go home without her.

When her husband and the kids leave for the airport, Georgie wonders if she’s finally done it. If she’s ruined everything.

That night, Georgie discovers a way to communicate with Neal in the past. It’s not time travel, not exactly, but she feels like she’s been given an opportunity to fix her marriage before it starts...

Is that what she’s supposed to do?

Or would Georgie and Neal be better off if their marriage never happened?

Thoughts on Landline
Despite Landline being available at BEA, I was never able to work out my schedule to grab a copy. Everything else just felt so much more urgent! I was able to meet Rainbow Rowell when she visited a bookstore in my area earlier this year, so I knew that I wouldn't feel too bad if I missed out on seeing her in New York. Then, the lovely and generous Alexa actually sent me her ARC of Landline, so I was still able to read this book a little early.

So, there's one small thing that probably affected my feelings on Landline: before reading it, I fell in love with After I Do by Taylor Jenkins Reid. Why is that a problem? The two focus on a somewhat similar topic - a marriage in crisis. And I am absolutely, totally obsessed with After I Do. So, the whole time I was reading Landline, my mind kept comparing it to that book. I hated that I was doing it, but I couldn't stop myself!

Landline was a good read. I love Rowell's humor, and the way she writes. Her voice isn't like anyone else's, and I love that there almost seems to be a cadence to her writing. There's this rhythm that's all her own, and it's something I've come to love about her books.

And yet, I struggled with this book. I felt like it too a long time for anything to happen, and I wasn't invested enough in the characters to care about them even when things were progressing slowly. I found myself continually frustrated by the characters, although that does indicate that I was engaged enough to have an emotional reaction to them. But overall, I really didn't like them. I thought they were well-developed and layered, but I just didn't care about whether or not they worked out their problems. I'd been so incredibly invested in the characters in After I Do, and I felt frustrated by my detachment to the ones in Landline. I admired that Rowell showed the hard side of a relationship, but, at the same time, I didn't really like what I was reading.

Something just felt off to me, and I can't quite put my finger on it. There wasn't a lot that happened, the characters drove me crazy and I just wanted something more from the story. Even the magical telephone element annoyed me because it introduced more questions than answers. It felt a little lazy - a way to help Georgie reflect on her past - without introducing any real consequences into her present. By the end, I didn't feel satisfied... It was a bit more like ambivalence, and maybe a bit of disappointment. I wanted to love it! Attachments is my favorite book by Rowell, and I was so looking forward to another adult fiction title from her.

I still liked it, however, for two main reasons: the writing style/voice and the themes. Her exploration of marriage felt honest. I loved what she set out to explore: sacrifice, selfishness, love, commitment, etc. This one wasn't a favorite for me, but I know that's partly because I came into with very high expectations and my thoughts clouded by my love for the other book. Of all of Rowell's books, I'd personally be least likely to recommend this one. But this has been a huge hit with so many other readers, so I have no doubt that it just wasn't quite right for me.

So Quotable
"You don't know when you're twenty-three. You don't know what it means to crawl into someone's life and stay there. You can't see all the ways you're going to get tangled, how you're going to bond skin to skin. How the idea of separating will feel in five years, in ten - in fifteen. When Georgie thought about divorce now, she imagined lying side by side with Neal on two operating tables while a team of doctors tried to unthread their vascular systems. She didn't know at twenty-three."

Help Me Decide!

Aug 12, 2014

Top Ten Tuesday is a weekly feature hosted by The Broke and The Bookish. Every week they post a new topic/top ten list and invite everyone to share their own answers. I'm so obsessed with lists - so it makes perfect sense that I'd love this feature!

Top Ten Books I'm Not Sure I Want to Read


1. Tsarina by J. Nelle Patrick 
Why I'm Interested: Russia, duh. 
Why I'm Unsure: It's gotten mixed reviews from bloggers I follow.

2. Prisoner of Night and Fog by Anne Blankman 
Why I'm Interested: I love WWII books, and this sounds like a different perspective.
Why I'm Unsure: I read a critical review that made me question my desire to read it.

3. Still Star-Crossed by Melinda Taub
Why I'm Interested: It picks up after the end of Romeo and Juliet!
Why I'm Unsure: I've heard nothing about it - it's only on my radar because I saw it at the library.

4. Gilt by Katherine Longshore
Why I'm Interested: Royalty is right up my alley.
Why I'm Unsure: I read a few chapters and never quite got into it.

5. Belle Epoque by Elizabeth Ross
Why I'm Interested: It sounds so unique, and I love learning about "new to me" time periods.
Why I'm Unsure: Honestly, I just don't know much about it.


6. Etiquette & Espionage by Gail Carriger
Why I'm Interested: I basically want to read it because of the cover and title.
Why I'm Unsure: Steampunk doesn't really interest me very much.

7. The Archived by Victoria Schwab
Why I'm Interested: I see people talk about it a lot on Twitter.
Why I'm Unsure: I can't even tell you what it's about...

8. Rebel Belle by Rachel Hawkins
Why I'm Interested: The Southern setting mostly, but it's also got a fantastic cover.
Why I'm Unsure: It sounds a little cheesy.

9. The Burning Sky by Sherry Thomas
Why I'm Interested: Kelly loved this book, and I trust her.
Why I'm Unsure: My eyes glazed over when I saw the word "elementals" in the summary.

10 The Cadet of Tildor by Alex Lidell
Why I'm Interested: I've really loved fantasy lately.
Why I'm Unsure: I hate this cover, and the summary seems a little blah.

The People's Queen

Aug 11, 2014

The Queen of the Tearling by Erika Johansen

Release Date: July 8, 2014
Publisher: HarperCollins | Harper
Pages: 448 pages
Source & Format: Publisher at BEA; ARC
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Summary (from Goodreads)
On her nineteenth birthday, Princess Kelsea Raleigh Glynn, raised in exile, sets out on a perilous journey back to the castle of her birth to ascend her rightful throne. Plain and serious, a girl who loves books and learning, Kelsea bears little resemblance to her mother, the vain and frivolous Queen Elyssa. But though she may be inexperienced and sheltered, Kelsea is not defenseless: Around her neck hangs the Tearling sapphire, a jewel of immense magical power; and accompanying her is the Queen’s Guard, a cadre of brave knights led by the enigmatic and dedicated Lazarus. Kelsea will need them all to survive a cabal of enemies who will use every weapon—from crimson-caped assassins to the darkest blood magic—to prevent her from wearing the crown.

Despite her royal blood, Kelsea feels like nothing so much as an insecure girl, a child called upon to lead a people and a kingdom about which she knows almost nothing. But what she discovers in the capital will change everything, confronting her with horrors she never imagined. An act of singular daring will throw Kelsea’s kingdom into tumult, unleashing the vengeance of the tyrannical ruler of neighboring Mortmesne: the Red Queen, a sorceress possessed of the darkest magic. Now Kelsea will begin to discover whom among the servants, aristocracy, and her own guard she can trust.

But the quest to save her kingdom and meet her destiny has only just begun—a wondrous journey of self-discovery and a trial by fire that will make her a legend…if she can survive.

Thoughts on The Queen of the Tearling
In the last year or so, I've found myself gravitating toward fantasy. I never used to read the genre - and now it's where I'm finding all of my favorite books! In preparation for BEA, I looked through lists of some of the books that were expected to be there. One of those was The Queen of the Tearling, and I knew that I wanted to try and snag a copy. After having such luck with fantasy reads, this one sounded right up my alley! Thankfully, the HarperCollins booth was a fan of orderly lines so I had no trouble getting it.

When I got home, I added it on Goodreads and was dismayed to see numerous negative reviews. The book was being heavily promoted by the publisher, so I was wondered if it was only normal that a "hyped" title would be drawing mixed reviews. Either way, I didn't rush to read it. I ended up saving it to read in the car ride for my family vacation in July... and I read the entire book by the time we got there. My husband and brother were chatting away in the front, but I couldn't tear myself away from this book. I was seriously in love!

The Queen of the Tearling is the story of Kelsea Raleigh Glynn - a nineteen-year-old girl raised in exile until the day she's called to claim her rightful place on the throne. Separated from her mother for years, Kelsea has been sheltered and doesn't have so many of the things that others think she needs to be Queen. But she does have the Tearling sapphire, a jewel with an incredible amount of power, which she'll need to face the many enemies who'd like nothing more than to see her dead. She's accompanied by the Queen's Guard, brave knights with more knowledge of Kelsea's mother and their kingdom's history than the future Queen herself. When Kelsea discovers the secrets they keep, her actions will set in motion a series of events that will change the course of history and usher in a new era for her kingdom.

So, can you tell this is basically an epic adventure? I'm all psyched up again just recapping the book! The Queen of the Tearling is really unique in a lot of ways. The magical elements and inventive world are definitely indicative of fantasy, but there are other things that made it read almost like a bit of a mashup. It reminded me of historical fiction BUT it's actually set in the future (so there's also a dystopian feel to it). The world has fallen apart, and this society has sprung up in its place. It sounds confusing - and yes, you may still have some questions at the end of it - but it worked overall for me. However, I did wish that a few of the modern references (like one to Harry Potter) had been eliminated because they didn't seem to fit and took me out of the book as I was reading. In fact, I think I would have loved it without reservations if it had been strictly historical fantasy, but that was my only real dislike with the book.

Now, let's talk about what I loved... EVERYTHING else. Seriously. I kind of wanted some more romance (there's really not one here), but I also loved that it's really focused on Kelsea's coming of age. She's a fascinating heroine, and I absolutely adored her. Flawed but fierce, Kelsea is turning into a leader and a character I won't soon forget. She's clever, capable, compassionate, courageous... but she's also aware of her weaknesses and willing to admit when she's wrong. Honestly, she was probably my favorite thing about the book! But the secondary characters are also excellent and added a whole new dimension to the story. From the Queen's Guard to the people Kelsea meets within the castle's walls, The Queen of the Tearling is full of intriguing and well-developed characters.

The other thing I really loved about The Queen of the Tearling is that it really focuses on social and political storylines. It's one reason that I know the book won't work for everyone - it's a bit slower and more serious. Personally, I loved all those elements, but the pacing will likely be a problem for some readers. Slavery, prostitution, wealth, power, magic, control - there are so many layers to this world. You can feel all this tension warring within the pages of the book, and that made it such a great read for me. It gave the story so much depth, and I feel like there's so much left for Johansen to explore in future books.

Overall, I really loved this book! It was one of my top reads in July, and I'm almost positive it will make my list of favorites at the end of the year. I didn't expect to love this one as much as I did, and it's one of the best bookish surprises when a book totally surpasses your expectations. I cannot wait for the next book in this series, and I just have to note that the finished copy of this book is GORGEOUS. Seriously. Velvety cover, gorgeous endpapers, a red ribbon bookmark... BUY IT.

So Quotable
"Stories moved Kelsea most, stories of things that never were, stories that transported her beyond the changeless world of the cottage."
*I received a copy of this book from the publisher for review consideration. This did not affect my opinion of the book or my review.

The Ties That Bind Us Together

Aug 8, 2014

Mating for Life by Marissa Stapley

Release Date: July 1, 2014
Publisher: Simon & Schuster | Atria Books
Pages: 336 pages
Source & Format: NetGalley; e-ARC
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Summary (from Goodreads)
Former folk singer Helen Sear was a feminist wild child who proudly disdained monogamy, raising three daughters—each by a different father—largely on her own. Now in her sixties, Helen has fallen in love with a traditional man who desperately wants to marry her. And while she fears losing him, she’s equally afraid of abandoning everything she’s ever stood for if she goes through with it.

Meanwhile, Helen’s youngest daughter, Liane, is in the heady early days of a relationship with her soul mate. But he has an ex-wife and two kids, and her new role as a “step-something” doesn’t come with an instruction manual. Ilsa, an artist, has put her bohemian past behind her and is fervently hoping her second marriage will stick. Yet her world feels like it is slowly shrinking, and her painting is suffering as a result—and she realizes she may need to break free again, even if it means disrupting the lives of her two young children. And then there’s Fiona, the eldest sister, who has worked tirelessly to make her world pristine, yet who still doesn’t feel at peace. When she discovers her husband has been harboring a huge secret, Fiona loses her tenuous grip on happiness and is forced to face some truths about herself that she’d rather keep buried.

Interweaving the alternating perspectives of Helen, her daughters, and the women surrounding them, “each new chapter brings a wise and tender look at single life, dating rituals, and marital unease” (New York Times bestselling author Jennifer Close). In this “absolute feat of storytelling” (bestselling author Grace O'Connell), Marissa Stapley celebrates the many roles modern women play, and shows that even though happy endings aren’t one-size-fits-all, some loves really can last for life.

Thoughts on Mating for Life
When I first read the summary for Mating for Life, I really wasn't sure if the book was going to be right for me. I am typically drawn to books involving sisters and/or family relationships, but something about this one gave me pause. However, the number of positive reviews on Goodreads convinced me to take a chance on it.

At the book's center is the mother, Helen, who is a former folk singer, wild child and fiercely independent. She raised three daughters - each from a different father - and finds herself craving companionship now that she's in her sixties. Helen's three daughters each have relationship problems of their own.

The oldest, Fiona, has always been the one in control. She craves structure and order, and she's crafted a family life that many outsiders would envy... until she discovers her husband's been harboring a big secret. The middle daughter, Ilsa, followed in her mother's footsteps. She loves freedom and has always done as she pleases. Now a wife and a mother, she's watching her life change and her art slip away. The youngest, Liane, has finally found love, but it's also not without its complications.

Each chapter opens with an excerpt that describes the mating rituals of an animal or bird that ties into the chapter. I thought this was unique and clever - though I did catch myself skimming over them a few times. As I began reading, I was surprised to find that each chapter was told from a different perspective. The mother and three daughters each take turns in the spotlight, but there are also additional secondary characters who have chapters focusing on them.

Honestly, this ended up being my biggest frustration with the book. I had a difficult time keeping the characters straight in the beginning - as well as remembering their relationship with one another and place within the family. Add to that so many perspectives, and I became overwhelmed and disconnected. I felt like I never really got to know the characters. The minute I started to become intrigued by one character and storyline, it jumped to a completely different one. The multiple perspectives was an ambitious choice that didn't ultimately pay off for me.

I felt like there was a lack of focus overall, in the plot as well as character development. I've already noted the numerous characters, but there are also so many storylines going on. Every single woman had their own personal crisis, as well as an additional issue with someone in the family. Of all the conflict within the book, I most enjoyed the moments where the story highlighted the mother-daughter and/or sibling dynamics. One thing I found very odd - almost all of the women in this book seemed to have a sort of "we don't need men" attitude and yet almost all of their conversations or drama centered around men.

That's not to say this was a bad read. I really loved the setting, and I thought that the way the stories all intertwined was interesting and thoughtfully done. Mating for Life was a quick read, contained a few themes that I really liked and introduced me to a new debut author. It was a book that I liked overall, despite the issues I had with it. I suspect that part of my problem was I never connected to any of the characters, and I'd likely have enjoyed it much more if there'd be at least one that really resonated with me. Because of that, I'd encourage readers who are intrigued by the summary to either give it a shot or read a few more reviews for an additional opinion.

So Quotable
"I was trying to prove that things that have been torn and ruined, things that have failed, can be put back together in other ways. Maybe even in beautiful ways, or at the very least in truer ways."
*I received of copy of this book from the publisher for review consideration. This did not affect my opinion of the book or my review.

There's No Place Like Home!

Aug 6, 2014

The Nesting Place by Myquillyn Smith

Release Date: April 29, 2014
Publisher: Zondervan
Pages: 208 pages
Source & Format: Bought; Hardcover
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Summary (from Goodreads)
Perfection is overrated. Popular blogger and self-taught decorator Myquillyn Smith (The Nester) is all about embracing reality -- especially when it comes to decorating a home bursting with boys, pets, and all the unpredictable messes of life. In The Nesting Place, Myquillyn shares the secrets of decorating for real people -- and it has nothing to do with creating a flawless look to wow your guests. It has everything to do with embracing the natural imperfection and chaos of daily living. Drawing on her years of experience creating beauty in her 13 different homes, Myquillyn will show you how to think differently about the true purpose of your home and simply and creatively tailor it to reflect you and your unique style -- without breaking the bank or stressing over comparisons.

Full of easy tips, simple steps, and practical advice, The Nesting Place will give you the courage to take risks with your home and transform it into a place that's inviting and warm for family and friends. There is beauty in the lived-in and loved-on and just-about-used-up, Myquillyn says, and welcoming that imperfection wholeheartedly just might be the most freeing thing you ll ever do.

Thoughts on The Nesting Place
Myquillyn Smith is the blogger behind The Nesting Place - a popular home decor blog she started in 2007. I've visited her website a few times (often through an image on Pinterest) but have never subscribed. I love decorating in small doses. I enjoy looking at gorgeous rooms, pinning inspirational images, flipping through magazines and books... but I rarely take that from paper to the place I live.

I don't feel confident when it comes to decorating. My mom sees a room and has a vision for it. She thinks in a completely different way than I do - picturing the finished project, able to see how all the random parts will fit together to make something beautiful and comfortable. And, for the most part, my house looks nice because she's has helped me. My sister can do the same thing with fashion, which is why I frequently turn to her for clothing advice and will gladly accept any and all of her hand-me-downs. But my brain doesn't think that way!

The finished product is my favorite, but I've never been good at or found joy in the journey that it takes to get there. I can identify what I like and don't like, and I think I have pretty good taste. But I can't actually translate that into my real life! I get hung up on how much it might cost, what will happen if I don't like it or screw it up or make a mess... or even just where to begin. So, while I don't read Myquillyn's blog, I knew that I wanted to read The Nesting Place book because of the tagline: "It doesn't have to be perfect to be beautiful."

Reading that sentence felt so freeing to me. I'm not sure if I would have been able to put my feelings about decorating into words before reading this book: I never get started because I'm scared it won't look perfect. I like to be in situations where I know what I'm doing, what I'm talking about, what's expected of me. In fact, I will do everything I can to avoid the state of not knowing. If I don't know how to do something, I won't do it. If I don't know how to pronounce something, I won't say it. If I think I'll look foolish or inept, I fear being asked or required to do it. I like learning (so next time I will know), but I'm not a fan of situations that force me to try something new in front of other people.

I'm not saying this is a good quality. In fact, it's one I've had to work hard to fight against. My natural inclination is often to say no to new experiences, and I don't like that because it's often rooted in pride (wanting people to think I have it all together). And it rears its head again and again.

Despite knowing all this about myself, I'd never thought about it in the context of decorating. I realized that I'm unsure of myself when it comes to my home - with a vague idea of what I like but feeling unable to make it a reality. Reading The Nesting Place was perfect for me because it reminded me of the freedom in imperfection, the beauty in creating (even if it's a mess) and the reward in taking a risk.

Myquillyn and her family have moved numerous times and have spent most of those years renting. The Nesting Place is unique because it isn't really a decorating book. There are some ideas in it, yes, but it's really an inspirational book - a call to see your home a different way, to embrace imperfection, to stop waiting for the right time, to look past your limitations and excuses to create a space that you want to call HOME. If you're looking for standard decorating ideas or DIY tutorials, this probably isn't the book for you. But if you're like me, it might be just what you need.

If you look at your house and know that it's not yet what it could be, especially if it's because you've been too scared to try, I highly recommend this book. I think it's for the people who don't really know what they're doing in their home, but they know they want it to be something more. In one chapter, Myquillyn writes:
Is your home just another place of unmet expectations, to-do lists, and exhaustion? Or is your home a haven, the safest place on earth, a place to come back to, a place to heal, a place to create, a place to risk and simply be? You get to decide.
That quote sums up why I loved this book so much. Myquillyn reminded me that it's in my hands - I can create the home that I imagine, and I get to decide how I feel about the place that I live. But even more than that, she challenged me to think about the purpose of my home. I really loved this read, and it was exactly what I needed to hear! Filled with beautiful images of her home, inspiring words of advice and unexpected uses of whimsy and inventiveness, The Nesting Place quickly became the best "decorating" book that I've ever read.

So Quotable
"We don't want a pretty home just for the sake of a pretty home. Home is a place to come back to for rest. It's also a place to go out from to do everything else we're meant to do. I long to create a home where all who enter can fully be themselves, and where all who enter can be more ready to live out their calling. After all, creating a beautiful home is a journey, not a destination."
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