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Quick Lit: July 2020 (Part One)

Aug 13, 2020


I read 18 books in July, and I'm reviewing nine of those books today in Part One and six tomorrow in Part Two. What about the other three books? Two are mentioned briefly at the end of today's post: one was a re-read and the other was a graphic novel that I didn't have a ton of thoughts on. The third book was one I loved so much that I'm wring a longer, separate review for it: Dear Emmie Blue by Lia Louis. I'm so excited to chat about my July reads! If you enjoy this feature, check out other readers' reviews at Modern Mrs. Darcy.


BIG SUMMER BY JENNIFER WEINER – This novel, my first from Weiner, tackles a number of topics – mostly focusing on body image, female friendship,  and influencer culture. The heroine is an adult at the start of the book, but there are lots of flashbacks to her adolescence. I thought this worked really well, and I was very invested in her story! The friendship at the heart of the book is a toxic one, and I could understand how it happened when the heroine was a teenager but less so once she was an adult. Thankfully, the story went in a different direction right around the time I was losing patience with the heroine. I So Enjoyed It overall, especially the way it looked at the pitfalls of social media and a highly curated life. This would be a good beach read – engaging, fun, and fast!

RELISH BY LUCY KNISLEY – When I was looking up food memoirs, I came across this one. It caught my attention because it's a graphic novel, something I've barely read. I thought this might be a fun way to try the genre! The early chapters were engaging, but the book overall felt inconsistent. Many of the stories felt disjointed, unfinished, or... dare I say it... boring. I loved the idea of exploring moments in life through the lens of food, but many of the ones here didn't seem noteworthy enough to share. They felt like the kind of stories that get repeated within a family where the listeners actually know everyone involved. There wasn't enough there to warrant a memoir, for me. I preferred the illustrated recipes over the anecdotes, which was a bit of a bummer. I'm So Okay With It.

SISTERS FIRST BY JENNA BUSH HAGER AND BARBARA BUSH – Since I've been in a memoir mood lately, I was browsing the non-fiction audiobooks available from my library. This was one of them, and I decided to give it a try since I've been enjoying many of the Read with Jenna book club picks. There were a number of things I enjoyed about this book, particularly the look inside a close-knit family. Their love for one another was evident in every story! I did think the writing and editing was somewhat frustrating – for example, the way the stories jumped around meant things were often repeated (perhaps as a reminder to the reader?) and left me wishing the structure was a bit different. But I So Liked It overall and thought it offered an interesting look into their lives.


SEX AND VANITY BY KEVIN KWAN – After loving Kwan's Crazy Rich Asians series, I was thrilled when this new release was announced! My excitement skyrocketed when I learned it was a retelling of A Room with a View, one of my favorite classics. Once I started reading, I didn't want to put it down. I don't think Kwan is necessarily the strongest writer, but there's something about his characters and stories that I find insanely fun and engaging! I loved the nods to the inspiration, the footnotes often made me laugh out loud, and I really appreciated the way Kwan explored identity and racism through the experiences of the mixed-race heroine. I thought that gave it a lot of depth! I So Loved It, thought it was perfectly paced, and give it extra credit for being an excellent retelling.

HOURGLASS BY DANI SHAPIRO – There's a moment in this memoir about marriage where Shapiro talks about how their TV was programmed to cycle through thousands of family photos, at random, jumping back and forth in time. It was a telling anecdote because it's also how this book is written. There's a stream of consciousness to it, and memories aren't shared in chronological order. That would typically bug me, but it didn't here. Perhaps it was Shapiro's poignant observations, her deft maneuvering through the years, her vulnerability, or the loving honesty with which she wrote about her husband, but this book worked for me. I loved that it focused so much on time and memory, and it made me feel so reflective. This was more literary than other memoirs I've read, but So Enjoyed It.

BIG FRIENDSHIP BY AMINATOU SOW AND ANN FRIEDMAN – Before starting this book, I saw another reviewer mention that this was primarily the story of the authors' specific friendship, not necessarily an examination of the general topic, and was glad I went into it with that knowledge. I haven't listened to their podcast, Call Your Girlfriend, so their personalities and backstories were entirely new to me. I didn't always connect with them, which can happen in a memoir, but I loved many of the insights they shared about making a friendship last for the long haul. The concept of stretching within a friendship and repairing a broken one were two chapters that stuck out to me, in particular. I So Liked It and immediately wanted to call my bestie so I could read her my favorite quotes.


THE SOUTHERN BOOK CLUB'S GUIDE TO SLAYING VAMPIRES BY GRADY HENDRIX – I don't read horror, but I trusted my sister when she said I should try this book. The 90s South Carolina setting was so vivid, and I could imagine the Southern women who populated this small town coming to life before my eyes. I gagged at some of the gore (rats! cockroaches!) and was not a fan of the scenes where the vampire attacks victims, but I did love how Hendrix illustrated that racism and sexism pose as much of a threat to this community as the vampire. The vampire is allowed to go unchecked for so long because no one believes the Black community he targets first or the "bored housewives" who unravel his lies. It was a perfect blend of thought provoking and entertaining, and I So Loved It. 

NOTHING TO SEE HERE BY KEVIN WILSON – This was such an odd, unusual read, but it was on my radar after my sister reviewed it. Though she didn't push it on me, it sounded so quirky that I had to try it! I'm so glad because this ended up being a delightful little story. It was such a fast and short read that I almost felt there should be more to it, but then couldn't think of what I'd add. The characters were well developed, and I loved the story and its conclusion. I thought the voice of the heroine anchored the story really well, and the twins provided just the right amount of spark. The story was surprisingly emotional, and I loved this little chosen family trying to claw their way out of dysfunction. Plus, a lot of the dialogue and the heroine's observations cracked me up! I So Enjoyed It.

KID GLOVES BY LUCY KNISLEY – On the hunt for a few more graphic novels to try, I picked up this one. In it, Knisley chronicles her fertility problems, miscarriages, nine months of pregnancy, and traumatic birth story. There are chapters woven throughout that discuss the history and science of reproductive health, and those ended up being my favorite part of this book. It was so informative! Knisley's pregnancy and labor were interesting to read about, though we had very different experiences. I did find it stressful at times and wondered how I'd feel reading this if I didn't have children or was currently pregnant. I have no idea! But pregnancy really is "nine months of careful chaos," so I respect how this book illustrates that fact. I So Enjoyed It overall. 


Additionally, I re-read American Royals by Katharine McGee, one of my 2019 favorites. After getting a review copy of the sequel, Majesty, I knew I had to re-read this one first. I listened to the audio, which was totally delightful. The drama, intrigue, and creative twist on history still worked for me. It's not a super deep read, but I So Loved It! Check out my original review for the reasons it worked for me, and stay tuned for my review of the second.

I read Go to Sleep (I Miss You) by Lucy Knisley, too. It's a cute little book of illustrations that focus on life with a baby. It doesn't have a narrative and is more of a collection of snapshots from Knisley's first year as a new mom. I could relate to a lot of them! It was a fun, quick read that was just right for this season of my life. I So Liked It, though I probably wouldn't have picked it up if I hadn't recently had a baby. I'm glad my library had a copy!

What have you been reading lately?

August 2020 Goals

Aug 5, 2020

Many of the things that I wrote about in June remained true in July. There has been a more consistent rhythm to our days, and I love having a flexible schedule to plan around. Even though we aren't going anywhere, it's nice to feel like I have a better idea of what to expect from each day. I can't believe we're more than halfway through the year – and that it's been almost six months since our baby was born. With all the coronavirus stuff, I've had to stop myself from wishing the time away. I want to go back to "normal," but I know that I won't get this time back in my baby's life. It's been such a weird season, but I'm doing my best to give myself grace for all the feelings.

I remember debating whether or not it made sense to focus on goal planning this year, but I kept coming back to the idea that I wanted to spend my days on the things that mattered. My Powersheets haven't given me more time, but they have helped hold me accountable and motivated me to do the little things that add up to the life I want. From meal planning to meaningful moments with my sweet boys, I love looking back at these past seven months and seeing tangible progress. I'm so proud of all I've accomplished!


On My Calendar:
– Celebrating six months of our sweet baby
– A well check doctor's appointment
– Starting private swim lessons for my big boy
– Hopefully a long overdue haircut for me

Currently Obsessing Over:
– I already mentioned this in my most recent So Obsessed With post, but it's worth repeating: the Lindsay Letters Vertical Monthly Creatives Calendar is perfection! I love using a paper planner with a some digital reminders set up on my phone for myself. However, I wanted something to act as a home base for the whole family: things like my husband's ever-changing travel schedule, the boys' appointments, a spot to jot down a quick note or reminder.
– Although it wasn't the prettiest meal, this ground turkey sweet potato skillet was delicious. I'll be making it again!
– I finally watched the new movie adaptation of Emma... three times. I'm not shocked that it got mixed reviews, but I just loved everything about it. Gorgeous costumes and interiors, hilarious moments, and major swoon. 
– The new Taylor Swift album, folklore, of course! I never imagined we'd get two albums from Swift in less than a year. I love moody music, so it feels like it was made for me. I'm in awe of how Swift's sound can change so (seemingly) effortlessly. I think my favorite song is "Invisible String," but there aren't any I want to skip.
– This diamond chain from Helen Ficalora has been on my radar, but lately I can't stop thinking about it...

Yearly Goals:
(These should stay the same all year, so I'll just do month-to-month progress reports!)
– Read through the Bible in one year.
– Read a devotional every morning.
– Track my spending in the Goodbudget app.
– Blog 2x per week.

July progress: 
– Although I caught up by the end of the month, I got THREE WEEKS behind on my daily reading. Oof.
– I managed to stay on track with my daily devotional, only missing a day or two throughout the month.
– This has been easy to stay caught up on, and I'm sure it's because we've barely gone anywhere this year.
– There was one week where I only posted once, but it was balanced out by a week with three posts. Yay!

Revisiting My July Goals:
– Schedule a monthly planning session. / Complete! I did most of it one Sunday and wrapped up the rest this past weekend. I know I'm repeating myself, but this is one of my favorite habits I've developed in 2020. 
– Complete Five Months in the baby's journal + take monthly photo. / All done. I was a few days late on the photo but got it done in time. I had so much to write about this month as our sweet baby grows so quickly.
– Complete Five Months in my big boy's journal. /  Yep, complete. I wish I'd known about this journal sooner, but I'm thankful that I've been able to use old photos and planner notes to fill in these memories.
– Choose and print photos for both Promptly Journals. / I decided to wait until we're done with monthly photos before printing, but I did choose photos for the boys' journals and for the calendar I'll print for 2021. 
– Cull, download, rename, and backup June 2020 photos. / I'm always shocked by how quickly I can complete this task since it's something I used to procrastinate for so long. It feels great to be caught up on photos.
– Go through last few months of photos saved on iPhone. / All done, minus July. I'm waiting until they're backed up on my hard drive and the cloud before deleting them off my phone. But I should be done this week!
– Celebrate nine years of marriage. / Yep, even though it looked different this year. We spent the day with our sweet boys, and then we had a date at home: eating sushi and watching Hamilton on Disney+.
– Prep new 2020-2021 Dapperdesk planner. / OMG, IT'S SO PRETTY. I made a plan for all my notes pages, marked birthdays, wrote down appointments, and did everything to get my planner ready to go for its August start date.
– Catch up on all reviews. / By the end of July, I caught up on reviewing everything I read the month before, a few books that had lingered on my to-do list, and everything I read that month. It felt amazing to get them all done! 
– Review my 20 in 2020 list. / Although many of my goals didn't change much with COVID-19, I wanted to look at our family bucket list for the year to see if anything needed to change. Most of them still work, but I noted the ones that may not and wrote down alternate ideas to consider. I'll reassess each month as needed. 
– Meet with Nick to discuss finance book once he's finished. / My finance goal is that I've made the least amount of progress on. Nick finished the book, but I didn't prioritize chatting about it (though I know he has notes!). Whoops!

My August Goals:
– Schedule a monthly planning session.
– Complete Six Months in the baby's journal + take monthly photo.
– Complete Six Months in my big boy's journal.
– Cull, download, rename, and backup July 2020 photos.
– Celebrate our baby's half-birthday!
– Have a one-on-one date with my big boy.
– Brainstorm family traditions to implement.
– Complete three 20 in 2020 items.
– Read one 10 in 20 book.
– Make a screen time plan for myself and my big boy.
– Start a new evening routine.

Do you have any goals for August?

July 2020: Recap + On My Shelves

Aug 3, 2020


I feel like I never have anything new to say here, now that every month looks so similar. We didn't spend as much time outside in July due to the heat, but we made sweet memories at home. But I miss the old normal, y'all!


1. Celebrating Nine Years of Marriage – July 2 marked nine years of marriage for me and Nick, and it's a little crazy to me how quickly time has passed! My love for Nick has only grown, and I'm thankful every day for this life we've built together. We didn't do anything out and about to celebrate because of everything going on right now, but we did have a sushi + Hamilton date night at home the next day. It was low-key, but I wouldn't have changed a thing.

2. Fourth of July Fun – Our neighborhood has a golf cart parade on July 4th, and this was our first year experiencing it. We sat out in the front yard with our boys and waved to all our neighbors while they drove past in festively decorated golf carts and tossed out candy. It was so much fun! Afterward, a snow cone truck drove through, too. Yum! We didn't stay up to watch the fireworks though. For a holiday spent at home, it was full of sweet memories. 

3. Shopping with My Sister – Caroline and I went to the bookstore together a few times in July, and it was a fun way to get out of the house for a bit. I didn't buy a ton – mostly because my bookshelves and wallet were still reeling from all the damage I did in June. Haha! But I enjoyed getting to spend time with my sister, and these shopping trips with her have become one of my favorite bookish memories.

4. Jurassic Quest – My sister-in-law sent me information about this drive-thru dinosaur exhibit that was coming to Georgia at the end of July (and into August), and Nick and I thought it sounded fun for our big boy. He's obsessed with dinosaurs, and we hadn't been able to take him on a fun adventure since January. He thought it was so cool, loved seeing the giant triceratops (his favorite), and that made it all worth it to us.


Read 18 Books | Favorites:
Sex and Vanity by Kevin Kwan
Friends and Strangers by J. Courtney Sullivan
Dear Emmie Blue by Lia Louis

Honorable Mentions:
Hourglass by Dani Shapiro
Nothing to See Here by Kevin Wilson
Late Migrations by Margaret Renkl

“In space, nobody could hear you scream; on the Internet, nobody could tell if you were lying.”
Big Summer by Jennifer Weiner

“I cannot bring myself to even idly wish any of it—not even the most painful parts—away.
Eighteen years. Change even one moment, and the whole thing unravels.
The narrative thread doesn’t stretch in a line from end to end, but rather, spools and unspools,
loops around and returns again and again to the same spot.”
Hourglass by Dani Shapiro

“...we have changed each other in countless ways, from the profound to the imperceptible.
We didn’t just meet each other that night.
We began the process of making each other into the people we are today.”
Big Friendship by Aminatou Sow and Ann Friedman

“Sometimes she craved a little danger. And that was why she had book club.”
The Southern Book Club's Guide to Slaying Vampires by Grady Hendrix

“A no-good man will tell you he's going to change,” she said.
“He'll tell you whatever you want to hear, but you're the fool if you don't believe what you see.”
The Southern Book Club's Guide to Slaying Vampires by Grady Hendrix

“Honestly, Bessie? People don't care about anyone but themselves. They don't notice anything.
They are never looking at what's interesting. They're always looking at themselves.”
Nothing to See Here by Kevin Wilson

“When we write about our lives, it's a form of time travel.
We inhabit the body we were back then, and yet we do so from our safe distance in the future.”
Kid Gloves by Lucy Knisley

“Blessed are the parents whose final words on leaving—
the house, the car, the least consequential phone call— are always 'I love you.'
They will leave behind children who are lost and still found, broken and, somehow, still whole.”
Late Migrations by Margaret Renkl

“What we feel always contains its own truth, but it is not the only truth,
and darkness almost always harbors some bit of goodness tucked out of sight,
waiting for an an unexpected light to shine, to reveal it in its deepest hiding place.”
Late Migrations by Margaret Renkl

“It’s never the thing you’re holding back that kills the relationship,” Violet said.
“It’s the holding back itself that does it.”
Friends and Strangers by J. Courtney Sullivan

“The bond between parent and child was all-consuming, and yet its power was not cumulative.
It had to be remade again and again throughout the course of a lifetime.”
Friends and Strangers by J. Courtney Sullivan

“Maybe home isn't a place. It's a feeling. Of being looked after and understood. Of being loved.”
Dear Emmie Blue by Lia Louis

“Instructions for living a life: Pay attention. Be astonished. Tell about it.”
Devotions by Mary Oliver

“I had spent so much time considering the challenge of bearing witness,
of finding ways to transcribe experience so other people would understand.
The work of telling is essential, and it is not enough.
There is always the danger that the energy of the injustice will exhaust itself in the revelation—
that we will be horrified but remain unchanged.”
Notes on a Silencing by Lacy Crawford


I got off to a slow start at the beginning of the month, but I did eventually hit my stride. I shared my June 2020 Recap, of course, and followed it up with my July 2020 Goals. I shared several book review-related posts: my June 2020 Quick Lit split into Part One and Part Two, Tales & Tiger Lily's June 2020 installment, and a longer post about my love for The Heir Affair by Heather Cocks and Jessica Morgan. I chatted about my top ten books of 2020 (so far!) and predicted what will be on my list at the end of the year. It had been a while since I shared what I've been So Obsessed With lately, so it was fun to feature eight recent items I've loved. And finally, my favorite post of the month was writing about my best bookish memories from the past five years. So fun to reflect on them!



Favorite Album #1: folklore by Taylor Swift

I'm as shocked by this surprise release as everyone else, but omg I'm obsessed.
The whole mood and sound of this album is right up my alley, and I can't get enough!



Favorite Album #2: Gaslighter by The Chicks
I listened to more country music in middle and high school, so listening to a new album
from this band feels a little nostalgic for me. And boy, they didn't hold back on the drama!


Hamilton (20120) starring Lin Manuel-Miranda, Phillipa Soo, Leslie Odom Jr. and more – Even though I'm not a musical person, I fell in love with the Hamilton soundtrack back in 2016. So, I was thrilled to watch the show with the original cast in my own home. Thank you, Disney+! And y'all, it was everything I hoped it would be and more. I loved the performances, costumes, set, the way it was staged – all of it! I can't wait to watch it again.


Palm Springs (2020) starring Andy Samberg and Cristin Milioti – I saw someone talking about this movie on social media, so Nick and I decided to turn it on one night. It was ridiculous and so much fun! Watching two characters stuck repeating the same day over and over again could feel very repetitive, but I thought it was done so well here. I'm a sucker for a good romantic comedy, and this one was just right for the mood I was in when I turned it on!


Emma (2020) starring Anya Taylor-Joy and Johnny Flynn – Oh my gosh, I AM OBSESSED WITH THIS MOVIE! I bought this in May but didn't watch it until July, and I'm kicking myself for waiting so long. I laughed so much, majorly swooned, adored the costume and interior design eye candy, and watched it again a few days later. It got mixed reviews, but I loved it. It was a quirky adaptation, and I was happy it leaned into's Emma's initial spoiled immaturity. 


Queer Eye, Season 5, starring Bobby Berk, Karamo Brown, Tan France, Antoni Porowski, & Jonathan Van Ness – I think this was my least favorite season, and I can't quite put my finger on why. I wasn't as invested in most of the people being made over – and, in some cases, it seemed like the Fab 5 didn't have a natural rapport with the subject. It was still a delightful binge overall, but I would kind of forget about it as soon as the TV was off.


Book of the Month: Notes on a Silencing by Lacy Crawford, Friends and Strangers by J. Courtney Sullivan, and Big Friendship by Aminatou Sow and Ann Friedman

Bookstore Browsing: Old Lovegood Girls by Gail Godwin

Used Bookstore: Stir by Jessica Fechtor


Online Shopping: Headliners by Lucy Parker, Nothing to See Here by Kevin Wilson, Today Tonight Tomorrow by Rachel Lynn Solomon, Don't Overthink It by Anne Bogel, House Lessons by Erica Bauermeister, Dear Emmie Blue by Lia Louis, The Southern Book Club's Guide to Slay Vampires by Grady Hendrix, and Friends and Strangers by J. Courtney Sullivan 

Gifted: The Lion's Den by Katherine St. John

For Review: You Had Me at Hola by Alexis Daria and Her Last Flight by Beatriz Williams


Audible Sale / Credits: Beartown by Fredrik Backman, The Empire of Gold by S. A. Chakraborty, The Heir Affair by Heather Cocks & Jessica Morgan, Beach Read by Emily Henry, You Deserve Each Other by Sarah Hogle and Dear Emmie Blue by Lia Louis

Kindle: Headliners by Lucy Parker

NetGalley: Anxious People by Fredrik Backman

Books Make the Best Memories

Jul 28, 2020


In honor of Top Ten Tuesday's tenth anniversary, I revisited some of my past answers and shared my favorite topics. This one – my top ten bookish memories – led to one of my favorite posts on my blog. I mentioned wanting to revisit the topic and add some more recent memories, and today's prompt was a freebie. So, what perfect motivation to write this post! Here are ten of my best bookish moments from the past five years:


1. Buying Baby Books with My Mom (2016)
I'd been trying to get pregnant for a few years and wanted to wait a while to tell almost everyone, but there was no way I could keep that kind of secret from my mom. Not long after I told her the news, we met up for lunch together near my workplace. We dropped into the bookstore after, and she bought me every BabyLit Classic they had available. She knew how long I'd admired the adorable books, and it was such a generous moment of celebration. It was the baby's first gift, and it couldn't have been more fitting. A few months later, I used those books in the pregnancy announcement I posted on social media. And every time I see them on my big boy's shelves, I smile.


2. Moderating Sarah J. Maas' Event (2017) + Book Releases
There are no words to describe the shock and excitement I felt when I was asked if I was interested in moderating the Atlanta book tour stop for Sarah J. Maas' Tower of Dawn. I couldn't say yes fast enough! The high school theater where it was held was packed, and I got to have the best conversation with Maas beforehand and on stage. It was definitely one of the coolest opportunities blogging brought into my life! And I have to give a special shout-out to all the memories I have associated with her book releases, such as taking the day off work to read Queen of Shadows, my big boy sharing a birthday with A Court of Mist and Fury, and binging Kingdom of Ash in one day.


3. A Bookish March Madness Bet (Est. 2018)
Kelly knows I don't care about sports at all, including major tournaments or events like the Olympics. So, she devised a clever way to make me fill out a March Madness bracket: adding a bookish bet to the equation. The winner got to make the loser read any book of their choice. How could I resist the chance to make Kelly bend to my will?! To no one's surprise, I lost my first year – but I consider it a win because it led to a new favorite series for me. In our second year, I won. Yay! And with no March Madness this year, we created our own bookish brackets. You can read the post to see how that turned out! It's been such a fun, silly tradition that I look forward to every year.  


4. Nick Built Me Bookcases (2018)
When we decided to sell our house and move, we bought a house in a great neighborhood that just needed a little care and attention. There were so many things I adored about it, but one of my favorites was the room that was perfect for a library. I showed Nick a few posts about making Ikea Billy bookcases look like built-ins, and he told me he could make it happen. Y'all, it's literally a dream come true. It's my favorite room in my house, and I don't just love it because it's filled with beautiful books. I love the memory of those late-nights working on them together, and the love Nick put into the project. He's earned eternal bragging rights, and I'm so thankful for him!


5. #FebruaREREAD with Kelly (2019)
Near the end of 2018, I told Kelly, “I wish I could ignore my TBR for a month and just re-read old favorites.” “Why can't you?” she immediately replied. And so: we decided to spend all of February re-reading our favorite books! We called it our #FebruaREREAD. What better time to do it? The month we were both born in AND the month meant for celebrating love! It was so much fun to dedicate an entire month to old favorites. I was so proud of myself for re-reading 24 books, and I loved dedicating so much time to books I loved. We didn't do it again this year – mostly because I had a baby in February – but I wouldn't be surprised if it makes a comeback in 2021. Stay tuned!


6. My Mom Replacing My First Anne of Green Gables (2019)
In April of last year, I posted a photo on Instagram of these pastel editions of the Anne of Green Gables series in honor of the first day of spring. And I pointed out that I was missing this edition of the first book in the series because I loaned it to Deanna H. in fourth grade, and she never gave it back. Yes, I was still bitter. About a month later, my mom surprised me with a copy of this beloved book that she'd tracked down for me. Now, my collection is complete! It was such a sweet, thoughtful gesture. I love having the memory of the missing book and the precious way it was replaced all these years later. Mom, if you're reading this – I don't deserve you!


7. Bookstore Browsing with My Sister (2020)
I almost chose a different memory that was very representative of this year – getting alone time by  reading The Heir Affair while eating Culver's parked in my car – but I had to go with the one that's a lot more meaningful. Once things started to re-open after quarantine, my sister and I met up at Barnes & Noble and Books-a-Million. While I'm still not used to the feeling of wearing a mask, our bookstore dates have felt normal adjacent and have been a delightful way to get out of the house for a bit. And, inevitably, Caroline convinces me to treat my shelf and buy way more than I actually need. I'm not complaining, however, because we all need a little retail therapy this year.

The last three memories on my list don't have specific dates associated with them because I'm cheating by grouping a ton of my favorite memories together. Keep reading, and you'll see what I mean!


8. All the Book Signings I've Attended
Before I started blogging, I don't think it had even occurred to me to attend a book signing. I loved to read, but I didn't think about book tours or conferences like BEA. That all changed once I joined this community, and since then I've gotten to meet some of my favorite authors in person! From telling Beatriz Williams about my #BestieBeatrizBinge to listening to authors like Colleen Oakley, Gayle Forman, Stephanie Perkins, Laini Taylor and more chat about their inspiration, I've loved the people I've gotten to meet and the events I've attended. And my favorite, by far, was meeting Markus Zusak when he came to Atlanta for the tenth anniversary of The Book Thief. 


9. All the Bookstores I've Visited with Kelly
Kelly and I have visited a lot of bookstores in the past three years. Every time she comes to Georgia, we visit an ever-growing list of used bookstores in the surrounding area. We have our favorite stores, but we can't resist the thrill of the hunt even when it takes us to some random places. When I went to Wisconsin, we continued our tradition by exploring bookstores in Milwaukee and Madison. And, of course, we've gone in a lot of bookstores in our two trips across the pond. But none of those compare to the memories we've made at the Piccadilly Waterstones. You know how some people have a "this is our song" thing? Well, that store is Our Place.


10. All the Books I've Read While Traveling
For many books, I can remember the time and place that I read them. But none are quite as vivid in my mind as the books I've read while traveling! There's something special about going somewhere new that just cements a book in my brain. And it's even better when those stories become all-time favorites. I love looking at my shelves and remembering the little details – the cramped plane ride, the sand on my hands, the roar of the waterfall, the shadow of the Eiffel Tower – about the day I got to explore the world in more ways than one. And this item on my list has inspired another blog post: my ten favorite memories of reading while traveling. Coming soon!

What's your best bookish memory?

So Obsessed With: The Mini Edition #9

Jul 24, 2020

Some of my favorite posts are ones where bloggers highlight the products they're loving lately or the things they're currently coveting. I love this kind of content so much that I started highlighting my loves and lusts with So Obsessed With posts. So, here are eight things I'm so obsessed with lately:
Back in April, face masks weren't as easy to find from major retailers like Target. So, I turned to Etsy. I saw someone on Instagram recommend this shop, and I liked this Rifle print. I'm very happy with the quality, and it's washed well. Even though I wear a mask every time I go out, I still can't really believe this is the state of the world.

After I finished off my current cleanser, I mentioned to my sister that I needed to get something new. I'd been using Cetaphil but wasn't a huge fan because it didn't remove makeup very well. She recommended giving this one a try, and I've been pleased so far. It's gentle, has a subtle scent, and actually cleans my face. And it's a great price!

I've made this a few times since I first saved the recipe, and it hasn't gotten old. I love baby gold potatoes, and I never would have thought to try Italian-style chicken sausage but it's delicious in this meal! I've just made this in my oven, but I want to try it on the grill eventually. Sprinkling bacon and cheese on top is the perfect final touch.

Last year, I was obsessed with Book of the Month (referral link) for a few months before canceling. Well, I re-joined in April and haven't regretted the decision. I've loved their picks lately, and the app is an awesome bonus. I love the notification when selections are added, placing my order right from my phone. The Reading Challenge in fun, too!

This was purchased to solve a recurring problem in our household: forgetting that we'd run out of an item and needed to add it to our next grocery order. So, I got this simple but cute magnet for our fridge, and now we have no excuse! As soon as we notice an item running low, we write it down. The small size was perfect for our needs.

I added these to my cart after I saw them in one of @plannerstateofmind's Instagram photo. She's one of my favorite accounts to follow because she uses her Simplified Planner is such a practical way. I love getting ideas for my Notes pages from her, seeing her functional sticker usage, and admiring her gorgeous handwriting.

When I was searching for a solution to the problem mentioned in #5, I remembered this calendar that I'd bookmarked forever ago. The magnet worked better for my shopping list needs, but I realized I could still use this in my kitchen. It's the perfect way to keep track of appointments, Nick's upcoming travel, etc. I'm legit OBSESSED!

Previously, I would have considered myself a pretty loyal Publix shopper. It's still my favorite grocery store, but I've been using Kroger's Pickup option for a few months. It's made my life so much easier, and there's no going back! It's so well designed and convenient. Now I just pop in to Publix for favorites like flowers or bakery items.

What have you been loving lately?
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