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Quick Lit: May 2020

Jun 15, 2020


I read 16 books in May, and I'm reviewing six of those books today. What about the other ten books? One is published in July, so I'm holding my review until then. One was The Happy Ever After Playlist by Abby Jimenez, which I reviewed a few weeks ago. I'm working on a separate post for the Travis series, and I'll review the Mortal Instruments books once I've finished the whole series. Finally, you can find brief thoughts on my two re-reads at the end of this post. Whew! If you enjoy this feature, check out other readers' reviews at Modern Mrs. Darcy.


THE GUEST LIST BY LUCY FOLEY – I'm always on the lookout for a lighter mystery that doesn't get too dark, and this seemed like it would fit the bill based on the summary. And I was correct! In some ways, it reminded me of a modern-day Agatha Christie novel. I loved the remote Irish setting and how it made everything closed off. The writing was very atmospheric, too. It's a slower-paced mystery, but that worked for me. I liked getting multiple point of views – they each added different things to the story. I did guess one of the reveals, but the ultimate resolution was a fun surprise. I don't think the book will wow people who read heavily from this genre, but I So Enjoyed It. If you wanted to be whisked away to a destination wedding where something evil is afoot, give this one a try!

THE WORST BEST MAN BY MIA SOSA – I was browsing romance audiobooks on Hoopla and noticed this adorable illustrated cover. The premise sounded tricky – a woman who falls for her ex-fiancé's brother – but seemed to include one of my favorite tropes: hate to love. My favorite aspect was the heroine's Brazilian roots, and Sosa did a great job incorporating that into the story. My biggest issue wasn't with the book itself; the male narrator was awful. Any time he attempted a woman's voice, I cringed. So I didn't connect as deeply to the romance because I couldn't wait to get past his sections. But there were a lot of cute things about it, including the witty dialogue, the supportive secondary characters, and the wedding planning element. I So Liked It but advise you to skip listening to it.

HAPPY AND YOU KNOW IT BY LAURA HANKIN – This was such a happy surprise! I took a chance on it for my May Book of the Month selection but tried not to get my hopes up. I've been burned by books about rich, entitled moms before! Thankfully, this ended up being such a fun read. I couldn't put it down once I'd started, and I loved the realistic look at motherhood through a more satirical lens. I was invested in the characters and their dramas, and I was so happy that I couldn't ever really predict where it was going. There's a bit of a mystery at play, and it reminded me of Big Little Lies in that regard. The characters aren't always likeable, but that's fine with me. I still wanted to see what they'd do next, and I thought it had a very satisfying resolution. I So Loved It!


THE COMPLETE GUIDE TO MONEY BY DAVE RAMSEY – One of my 2020 goals is to learn more about personal finance, and I figured Dave Ramsey was a great place to start. He's known for his Financial Peace classes, and I was already aware of (and agree with) many of the principles he teaches about debt, term life insurance, emergency funds, and more. While his writing is pretty average, I did appreciate the conversational, no-nonsense tone. Ramsey provides straightforward explanations for financial concepts – writing about them in an accessible way. It was nice to see where my husband and I are ahead of the game and begin to develop a plan for the areas where we could be doing more (like investing). I So Enjoyed It and am glad I started here.

FOR THE LOVE OF DISCIPLINE BY SARA WALLACE – We joke that our big boy is, in the words of Mary Poppins, 'practically perfect in every way.' He's the sweetest, most loving little boy and has been so easy to parent. That being said, I'm so glad I picked up this book. I enjoyed how Wallace explored the purpose of discipline and included lots of Scripture and biblical truth about how the Gospel plays a role in shepherding our children's hearts. It reminded me of Paul David Tripp's Parenting in some ways. There were practical suggestions throughout, several of which I plan to implement. I have a feeling I'll end up revisiting this one. It was thought-provoking, easy-to-read book that was just what I was looking for since it's geared more towards moms of little kids. I So Enjoyed It.

THE SWITCH BY BETH O'LEARY – After loving O'Leary's debut, The Flatshare, this was one of my most-anticipated 2020 releases. I ordered a copy from the UK so I could get it sooner and have this adorable cover! Unfortunately, it was pretty disappointing. The premise is cute – a woman and her grandmother switch houses for two months, a la The Holiday, because they're both in need of a change. For me, the execution left a lot to be desired. The story was boring and had too many unnecessary secondary characters, so it felt like a series of scenes connected together without a strong drive to the narrative. And it was just so cheesy! It was like reading a Hallmark movie, and I just had no patience for it. It was cute, but in a light, shallow way that was ultimately forgettable. I'm So Okay With It.


I re-read two books via audio in May. The first was Jellicoe Road by Melina Marchetta. It's such a sad story, and I always forget that fact. There is a puzzle-like aspect to the book, and it takes until about halfway through before the pieces start fitting together. Even though I've read it before, it still felt a little confusing at times! But I'm So Obsessed With It still and thought narrator Rebecca Macauley did a great job. The other book I listened to was Eligible by Curtis Sittenfeld, a Pride and Prejudice retelling that I had fond memories of. I won't lie – I liked it less on re-read than I expected. I'd probably still say I So Enjoyed It, the same rating I gave it my first read, but I found myself mentally nitpicking it while listening. It wasn't bad, but the characters grated on me more via audio.

What have you been reading lately?

Tales & Tiger Lily: May 2020

Jun 12, 2020


My sister recently joined bookstagram as @talesandtigerlily. Her name is Caroline, and Tiger Lily is her adorable sidekick (pictured above). Since she's discovered a love of reading, I've had the best time talking about books with her. I love recommending my favorites to her, telling her what NOT to read, and seeing what she discovers on her own. Her taste runs a little more literary than mine with a side of dark and twisty. That's made it even more fun to call her every morning, ask what she thought of whatever she finished the night before, and find out what she'll be reading next! Be sure to check out her introduction post to get to know her a little better. 

I've loved getting a sneak peek at her reviews before she posts them, marveling at how she's able to infuse so much personality in them. I love her voice so much that I had to start featuring her on my blog, too. Plus, she's reading so many things that I haven't – the perfect opportunity to highlight a wider range of books here! So, once a month, you'll get a new installment of Tales & Tiger Lily. In each post, she'll review three of her favorite reads from the previous month and end with a list of everything she read with ratings (and links to reviews, if applicable). I'm so excited to kick this off today and know y'all will love her, too! Without further ado, her top three from May:


WRITERS & LOVERS BY LILY KING
“There’s a particular feeling in your body when something goes right after a long time of things going wrong. It feels warm and sweet and loose.”

I LOVED this book so much. I am the type of reader who likes to sit down and knock it out in one day. Writers & Lovers made it quite a wonderful Sunday. The 4 cups of coffee had me flipping pages and in the zone.

Casey Peabody can't seem to catch a break. She is struggling to write her book, recovering from the sudden loss of her mother, and trying to deal with the large amount of debt from student loans. On top of this, she is trying to decide between two men she is seeing. OMG. I just wanted to scream at her not to rush too quickly into these relationships. Been there done that! Slow down, Casey Peabody.

I loved the style of the writing. It felt quirky and fun. I didn’t want to book to end. | 🐶🐶🐶🐶🐶

MY DARK VANESSA BY KATE ELIZABETH RUSSELL
“I'm a speckled seal swimming past the breakers, a seabird with a wingspan so long I can fly for miles. I'm the new moon, hidden and safe from him, from everyone.”

My mom always says, “H.A.L.T. — If you are hungry, angry, lonely, or tired, don’t make any big decisions, Caroline.” Well, I say if you are hungry, angry, lonely, or tired, DO NOT pick up the book My Dark Vanessa. If you are in good spirits and woke up prepared to face the evil in the world, then you don’t want to miss out on this stunning debut novel by Kate Elizabeth Russell. 

You know when you watch a terribly addicting crime documentary and you think, “Holy cow that was great, but why does my stomach hurt?! Why are my hands sweating?! Why do I feel so suddenly depressed?! I need to go outside in the sunshine and listen to Bob Marley or just sit in the kitchen and eat my feelings.” Well, that is how you will feel after reading My Dark Vanessa.

I absolutely loved this book. I felt so invested in Vanessa, and I wanted nothing more than to hug her. I wanted to see her overcome the trauma she had to deal with at the hands of her abuser. | 🐶🐶🐶🐶🐶

THE DUTCH HOUSE BY ANN PATCHETT
“But we overlay the present onto the past. We look back through the lens of what we know now, so we’re not seeing it as the people we were, we’re seeing it as the people we are, and that means the past has been radically altered.”

I am always drawn to books with deeper themes. There was so much I took away from this book, and I felt choked up a few times. It felt like I was reading a memoir rather than fiction. The Dutch House is about the bond between a brother and a sister, the abandonment of their mother, and the death of their father. It is definitely character driven and a book you may have to be in the mood for — but I’m so glad I read it. 

At times, I was so frustrated while reading. How can someone just walk away from their family? How does a mother abandon her children to be some “wannabe Mother Teresa”? I think it makes me so angry because I know people do it all the time. People often want to change the world, yet they are not willing to make necessary changes inside their own home. 

Enough ranting — I LOVED this book, and I think if you enjoy reading about how our family influences who we become, then you should give it a try. | 🐶🐶🐶🐶🐶

Recapping the Rest of Caroline's May Reads:
Maybe in Another Life by Taylor Jenkins Reid | 🐶🐶🐶🐶
The Boy from the Woods by Harlan Coben | 🐶🐶🐶🐶
The Girl He Used to Know by Tracey Garvis Graves | 🐶🐶🐶
The Sun and Her Flowers by Rupi Kaur | 🐶🐶🐶.5
Shout by Laurie Halse Anderson | 🐶🐶🐶🐶🐶
The Bell Jar by Sylvia Plath | 🐶🐶🐶🐶
The Stationary Shop by Marjan Kamali | 🐶🐶🐶.5
Happy and You Know It by Laura Hankin | 🐶🐶🐶.5 • Review
Blood Water Paint by Joy McCullogh | 🐶🐶🐶🐶.5 • Review
If I Never Met You by Mhairi McFarlane | 🐶🐶🐶🐶🐶 • Review
The Ten Thousand Doors of January by Alix E. Harrow | 🐶🐶🐶🐶🐶 • Review
Valentine by Elizabeth Wetmore | 🐶🐶🐶 • Review

Introducing: Tales & Tiger Lily

Jun 10, 2020

I'm so excited about today's post because I get to introduce you to my sister, Caroline! When she texted me two weeks ago and told me she was thinking about creating a bookstagram, I was thrilled. I've always been the reader in our family, a love I inherited from both of my grandmothers. Caroline and my mom would read occasionally, but they didn't love it the way I did. In fact, when we were younger, Caroline once told me to never talk about book on the first date. Little did she know she'd  one day have a social media account dedicated to them... Introducing:


So, what changed? Quarantine! She teaches third grade, and life has looked very different since staying at home and distance learning started. She turned to her bookshelves during the extra downtime, and she's been unstoppable now that school is officially out for the summer. While she'll listen to my recommendations, she definitely gravitates towards different books than I do. Her taste runs a little more literary, with a side of dark and twisty mysteries. She's started dipping her toe into fantasy and sometimes turns to women's fiction to mix it up.

I love finding out what she's reading and getting to hear her thoughts when she's done. When I read the first review she wrote, I was beyond impressed. Her writing has so much personality! I eagerly anticipate reading she'll write and then discussing it with her in more depth. She makes such personal connections to the things she reads and has the best way of communicating that in her reviews. She's already influencing me – I've read several things that weren't even on my radar! And she's Team Treat Yo' Shelf, so she's validating all my worst book-buying impulses.

Enjoy getting to know her, in her own words, below:


Meet the Bookstagrammer

Why hello, fellow book nerds. Let me introduce myself! My name is Caroline, and this is my cute dog Tiger Lily. I haven’t always been a book lover – but oh, do I love words. In fact, I love words so much it has gotten me into a bit of trouble with all those sweet talkin’ boys. If only I could have put those boys back on the shelf and DNF when they did me wrong… Now, the only words that can make me swoon are #talknerdytome.

Just like I don’t really have a type with men, I'm open to all genres. I appreciate them for differences, and size doesn’t matter. It’s what is on the inside that counts. 

I already have 100 books on my TBR, but with each swipe of the page, I am getting closer to finding The One. Until then, readers never go to bed alone, and I’ve got Tiger Lily to keep me warm.

• • •

Did you have any favorite books growing up? And Then There Were None by Agatha Christie.

What's the best book you've read this year? The worst? Writers & Lovers by Lily King is the best, and Stray by Stephanie Danler is the worst.

What's your favorite genre? Least favorite? I've been drawn to literary fiction lately, but thrillers got me into reading. My least favorite is romance.

If I gave you $100 right now, what books would you buy with it? The Mountains Sing by Nguyễn Phan Quế Mai, Shiner by Amy Jo Burns, If I Had Your Face by Frances Cha, Normal People, and The Beauty of Your Face by Sarah Mustafah.

What's the most recent book you added to your TBR? Euphoria by Lily King.

What's your favorite book you've read that I recommended to you? Circe by Madeline Miller.

Name three things that will automatically make you want to read a book. Family drama, deception, and death.

Describe your ideal reading scenario. Sitting in my chair with a cup of coffee and the whole day to finish a book with no distractions.

Do you have any bookish quirks? I always update my Goodreads progress on a book, even though I know I'm going to finish it in the same sitting. And I love listening to an audiobook and following along in the physical copy.

What's the last book that made you cry? A Burning by Megha Majumdar.

Who is your book boyfriend? Rhysand from A Court of Thorns and Roses series by Sarah J. Maas. (Damn, he sexy).

If you could live inside a book, what would you choose? The Ten Thousand Doors of January by Alix E. Harrow.

What character do you want as a friend in real life? Lou from Serpent & Dove because we could get all fat and sassy together. 

• • •

Hardcover or Paperback? Hardcover

Audiobook or E-Book? Audiobook

Buy or Borrow? Buy

Bookmark or Dog-ear? Bookmark

Fiction or Non-Fiction? Fiction

Adult or Young Adult? Adult

Standalone or Series? Standalone

New Books or Re-Reading? New Books

Coffee or Tea? Coffee

Dog or Cat? Dog, duh

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Because I'm genuinely so obsessed with her account, I had to highlight her here. Y'all need to follow her, if you aren't already doing it. Plus, there's another fun reason I wanted y'all to meet her: you're going to start seeing some of her reviews on the blog. Keep an eye out for the first installment of that in the next few days!

June 2020 Goals

Jun 5, 2020

While I accomplished many of my May goals, I was a little too ambitious. I spent a lot of time during the day helping my baby learn to nap in the crib (and have finally had consistent success!) and making sure my big boy was getting one-on-one attention, and then fell into bed exhausted at the end of the day. It didn't leave a lot of time or energy for my other projects! I'm still pleased with my progress and am celebrating marking some items off my to-do list that have been there for months. However, there are a few things I just keep procrastinating, namely getting caught up on my big boy's childhood journal. I scaled back my June goals to prioritize that project!


On My Calendar:
– The baby's fourth-month well visit
– Celebrating Father's Day
– A possible trip to the mountains

Currently Obsessing Over:
– Our neighborhood pool currently requires masks when not in the water, so we got this $34 inflatable pool for our backyard. It's been a great purchase: inexpensive, a perfect size, and provided hours of fun already.
– My sister joined bookstagram! Shes's @talesandtigerlily, and I've already gotten great recs from her. I'm working on a blog post introducing her + her account, and then we've got some fun ideas in the works together.
– I mentioned this show in two posts recently, but I loved Mindy Kaling's Never Have I Ever. Highly recommend!
– I always look forward to Modern Mrs. Darcy's 2020 Summer Reading Guide, and this year is no exception. I'd already read a few, had others on my radar, and found a few new titles that I can't wait to try.
– My big boy is obsessed with animals and wants to take them all over the house for "figure setups," as he calls it. My parents got him a wheeled basket called a Luggy from Olli Ella, and it's adorable + one of his favorite things.

Yearly Goals:
(These should stay the same all year, so I'll just do month-to-month progress reports!)
– Read through the Bible in one year.
– Read a devotional every morning.
– Track my spending in the Goodbudget app.
– Blog 2x per week.

May progress: 
– I did better in May about staying on track, though I still haven't built this into my routine yet.
– Doing pretty good here, too! I sometimes miss a day but always catch back up.
– This has definitely become a habit, and I'm so glad. Nick and I are discussing our next steps now!
– There was one week where I only posted once, but I wrote nine new posts overall so I'm still on track.

Revisiting My May Goals:
Schedule a monthly planning session. / Yep! May's planning session took place in bits and pieces over the course of a few days, but I still got it done. I always look forward to doing this at the end of the month!
Organize my closet. /  loved the way I organized my closet in the past, but I needed to purge a ton of clothes and tidy up a few areas. It felt so good once I completed this project, and my closet looks so much better.
Complete Three Months in the baby's journal + take monthly photo. / I had this done right on schedule!
– Complete Toddler Year Three in my big boy's journal. / Total fail. I barely touched my big boy's journal, and I know it's a project that will take less time than I think that it will. This is now my priority for June.
Cull, download, rename, and backup April 2020 photos. / I didn't do this until halfway through the month, but I did get it done. Not sure why I dragged my feet on it, but I'm so happy I have a solid routine in place.
Cull and rename all 2017 photos. / YES! I want to do a happy dance. I am now completely caught up. I've culled, renamed, and backed up all of my digital photos and videos – from 2007 up to now! I never thought I'd see the day.
– Have a Q1 financial review with Nick. / This got pushed from May to June and will clearly be having a mid-year review instead. After reading a finance book, I decided to have Nick read it, too, and then talk about our next steps.
Read two non-fiction books (faith + finance). / Complete! I read Dave Ramsey's Complete Guide to Money as my finance pick, and then a book about how the Gospel affects discipline as my faith-focused book.
– Read one 10 in 20 book. / I'm only about a third of the way through Magic for Marigold... Whoops!
Write two discussion posts. / I'm considering this as completed, though one post barely counts. I wrote about our newest love & ten things he's taught me and a Currently post where I chatted about what life looks like lately.
Check off two 20 in 2020 items! / Nick and our big boy built a bird house in May, which was adorable! And we had "go strawberry picking" on our list, but the farm had to close due to COVID-19. They did a drive-thru "feed the animals" event instead, and we went to it so I think we'll use that as our substitute adventure.

My June Goals:
– Schedule a monthly planning session.
– Complete Four Months in the baby's journal + take monthly photo.
– Complete Toddler Year Three + One to Four Months in my big boy's journal.
– Cull, download, rename, and backup May 2020 photos.
– Since all my photos/videos are now backed up, cull what's saved on iPhone.
– Trade in used books, and donate unwanted clothes.
– Complete two 20 in 2020 items.
– Make my Summer TBR.
– Finish three blog posts currently in my Drafts.
– Read one non-fiction book.

Do you have any goals for June?

May 2020: Recap + On My Shelves

Jun 4, 2020


In May, we celebrated our big boy's fourth birthday and spent most of our time at home. After March felt like it lasted forever, I didn't expect April and May to fly by. I can't believe we're almost halfway through the year.


1. Outdoor Picnic – We've been eating on our porch a lot more lately, but our big boy asked us to have a picnic in the front yard recently. We spread out a blanket in the shade of a big tree, made breakfast for dinner (yum!), and enjoyed waving to our neighbors on their evening walks. It was fun to do something different from our norm!

2. Drive-Thru Farm – We'd planned to take our big boy to the zoo for his birthday, but that got postponed in light of the pandemic. A local farm that typically offers strawberry picking in the spring pivoted to a "feed the animals from your car" experience, so we went. We all agreed that the homemade ice cream at the end was the best part.

3. My Big Boy Turns Four – I cannot believe our big boy is now four years old! Where has the time gone?! Although we didn't have a party, we had rain forest decor (per his request) and loved celebrating him all day long. This age he's at now just might be my favorite! It's a joy to be his mama, and I'm so thankful for him. 

4. Backyard Fun – Since we're still staying home, most of our fun comes in the form of playing outside. Our neighborhood pool just re-opened but requires masks when not in the water, which sounds miserable in the Georgia heat. So, we were thrilled to find this large $34 inflatable pool at Target. We've been loving it!


Read 16 Books | Favorites:
Blue-Eyed Devil by Lisa Kleypas
The Heir Affair by Heather Cocks & Jessica Morgan
The Guest List by Lucy Foley
Happy & You Know It by Laura Hankin

“Sometimes you think you love someone,” I said, “but it’s really just that they’ve become a habit.”
Brown-Eyed Girl by Lisa Kleypas

“It's unrealistic to expect to find peace in the arms of someone else if you can't find it within yourself.”
The Heir Affair by Heather Cocks & Jessica Morgan

“Eleanor doesn't argue,” Elizabeth said as she poured the first of five Splendas into her tea.
“She simply says things, and lets you decide whether you want to be wrong or not.”
The Heir Affair by Heather Cocks & Jessica Morgan

“The truth is just that sometimes you think you’re a good person,
and then little by little, you justify your way into being a bad one.”
Happy & You Know It by Laura Hankin

“Sarcasm is the last refuge of the imaginatively bankrupt.”
City of Bones by Cassandra Clare


While I haven't been at the peak of my blogging productivity, I have managed to consistently post about twice per week. That's a win, in my book! As usual, I started the month with my April 2020 Recap and then shared my May 2020 Goals. I participated in three Top Ten Tuesday topics: Ten Things I'd Have at My Bookish Party, Ten Books I Recently Abandoned, and Ten Favorite Opening Lines. I was particularly happy with my party post!

I shared a more lengthy review of The Happy Ever After Playlist by Abby Jimenez and wrote mini reviews for nine books in my April 2020 Quick Lit. My final two posts in May were a little more personal! I shared an updated Currently {May 2020} post with an overview of what my life has looked like lately. And my favorite post was about our newest love and ten things he's taught me. I'm so happy I finally sat down to write that one.



Favorite Album: Three. Two. One. by Lennon Stella

I remember liking Lennon's voice when she was on Nashville but didn't know she had
a music career outside the show. This album was on repeat for me all May!


Happiness Continues starring The Jonas Brothers – I wasn't a Jonas Brothers fan at the height of their popularity and have mostly just listened to their singles since they got back together. So, why did I turn on this concert film? I have no idea. Haha! But it was a suggestion on Amazon one day, so I decided to turn it on. It was pretty fun to have on in the background, I won't lie. And I'll probably watch their documentary now because why not?


Making It, Season 2, starring Amy Poehler and Nick Offerman – My mom mentioned watching this show, so Nick and I turned on when we couldn't decide what to watch next. I couldn't find season one, but Hulu had the second available. What a delight! I don't watch a lot of reality TV, but I love the kind that focuses on people's skills – like baking, sewing, or making. I'm not very crafty, but it was delightful to watch these talented people at work.


Superstore, Season 1, starring America Ferrara and Ben Feldman – I have so many shows in my queue to watch, but most of them are hour-long dramas. This wasn't really on my radar, but Nick and I decided to try it when we realized we were mostly in the mood for a sitcom. While some moments were so corny, I did laugh while watching this show. It's not a favorite so far, but we liked it enough to continue to the second season!


Never Have I Ever, Season 1, starring Maitreyi Ramakrishnan – If you attach Mindy Kaling's name to a project, it's basically guaranteed that I'll have to watch it. And when it's a teen comedy, too? Even better! Exploring the life of a first generation Indian American teen girl, I couldn't turn it off. I expected the humor, but I didn't know I was going to find it so moving, too. I loved everything about it and am so hoping there will be another season.


New Releases: Chain of Gold by Cassandra Clare, Valentine by Elizabeth Wetmore, One of Us is Lying by Karen McManus, You Deserve Each Other by Sarah Hogle, The Switch by Beth O'Leary, and Miss Austen by Gill Hornby

Gift Cards: The Jane Austen Society by Natalie Jenner, The Love Story of Missy Carmichael by Beth Morrey, and Maybe You Should Talk to Someone by Lori Gottlieb 

eBay Finds: Sugar Daddy, Blue-Eyed Devil and Smooth-Talking Stranger by Lisa Kleypas


Book of the Month: The Guest List by Lucy Foley and Happy & You Know It by Laura Hankin

Gifted: The Ballad of Songbirds and Snakes by Suzanne Collins and By the Book by Amanda Sellet 

For Review: The Boyfriend Project by Farrah Rochon

Audible: Brown-Eyed Girl by Lisa Kleypas (not pictured)

Kindle: Most Likely by Sarah Watson (not pictured)

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