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Three Types of Recommended Reads

Mar 8, 2016

I've been thinking recently about book recommendations. It's a topic I've written about before because, unlike many readers, I have complicated feelings about them. I want to love having someone recommend a book to me, but there's something about a targeted recommendation - someone saying "I think you should read this book!" - that makes me pause. I'm not completely sure why I feel that way, though I have my suspicions. That being said, I've read a few books recently that fall into three common recommendation categories. I thought it would be fun to look at each category and see how I felt about the books I read from each!

First, you've got the Recommendation That's Already on My Radar. This is probably my favorite type of book recommendation - and the one I'm most likely to read! Sometimes I'll see a book cover I like, read a summary that interests me or find a new book by an already-read author, and I'll add that book to my Consideration shelf. I typically let them hang out there so I remember to look for it at my library (no cost or commitment!) or until I can get more information about it (like reviews from trusted readers). I love when someone recommends a book that I was already interested in, especially because it motivates me to read it sooner!

That was the case with Princess of Thorns by Stacey Jay. I read and loved Of Beast and Beauty last year, so I immediately added Jay's newest book to my Consideration shelf. It sounded so interesting and had the biggest element that I'd loved from the other book - a twist on a fairy tale! I had a feeling that I'd eventually read it, but Alexa's glowing recommendation (and repeated pushes to read it) sealed the deal. When my Secret Sister gifted me a copy, I knew I had to dive right in! Thankfully, it was everything I was hoping for and more. I loved how Jay used the story of Sleeping Beauty as a jumping off point for her complex world and incredibly fascinating story. The heroine, Aurora, is fierce, intelligent and ready to face any obstacle. Along the way, she meets Niklaas - a stubborn and arrogant prince with his own agenda... and possibly a heart of gold hidden under that prickly demeanor. Their chemistry was AMAZING, and I couldn't get enough! I loved the way their friendship and fights brought them together in their individual quests and then in their joint need to defeat the villain(s). Add in Jay's gorgeous writing, and this book definitely earned my so obsessed with rating!

Next, there's the Recommendation That Requires Some Convincing. This is, typically, my least favorite type of recommendation. It's the book that doesn't really interest - and that I'd likely never pick up on my own - if someone wasn't pushing me to read it. My disinterest can stem from any number of reasons including a dislike of the genre, a lackluster previous reading experience with that author, a storyline/trope in the book that rarely works for me, etc. Unless I really trust the recommender's taste, I'm not likely to give this book a chance. I might appreciate the thought behind the recommendation, but I'll just let it slip from my mind with no feeling of guilt or obligation.

But what happens when I decide to actually give it a shot? That's what happened with Big Little Lies by Liane Moriarty. I'd previously read The Husband's Secret and thought it was okay. I didn't dislike it, but it wasn't a very memorable read for me. Because of that, I never felt a strong desire to read Moriarty's most recent book. I'd heard great things, but I didn't plan on reading it. But I didn't count on my friend Cassie and Kelly begging me to pick it up! Both absolutely adored it - and both promised me that it was even better than The Husband's Secret. Cassie gave me a copy for Christmas, and I read it soon after. I could see why they'd recommended it! The plot was compelling - opening with a pretty vague reference to tragic event and then flashing back to show you what led up to that fateful moment. As with the book I'd already read by Moriarty, Big Little Lies has multiple narrators. But in this book, I connected to the characters in a way I hadn't before which made me much more invested in the story and its resolution.  It was definitely a more memorable read! I found the ending very anticlimactic (and it's still not the kind of book I ever see myself re-reading), but I was glad I listened to my friends. I so enjoyed it, and it reminded me that it's good to give authors multiple chances!

And then there's the Recommendation That's Based on Reading History. This type of recommendation can certainly come from friends, but I think of it more as those suggestions from Goodreads or online retailers based on your browsing or purchase history. Since this type of recommendation doesn't come from a person, I love it because I have the freedom to ignore or investigate it as I see fit. I love that I don't have to worry about whether someone will ask me a few weeks later if I've read the book they recommended! That being said, losing the personal element does mean that it's more likely it won't fit your taste. I'm sure most people have browsed the "Recommended for You" section on Amazon or Barnes & Noble and wondered how in the world some books made the cut. Predictive analytics don't always get it right!

When they do, however, it's such a satisfying feeling. I was looking for new editions of Pride and Prejudice on Barnes & Noble's website a few months ago, which resulted in a recommendation of Unequal Affections by Lara Ormiston. It's a retelling of that beloved novel and asks an interesting question - What if Elizabeth Bennett had accepted Mr. Darcy's original proposal? Instead of taking back you through the very beginning of their acquaintance, it starts with that infamous proposal at the Hunsford parsonage and explores what might have happened if Lizzie had admitted she didn't love him but had agreed to marry him anyway. I've always loved reading retellings of my favorite classic, even though I rarely love the books themselves. I just can't resist giving them a shot! I was curious about this one because I liked the idea of the premise but wondered about the execution. Thankfully, I was delighted with the result. This is definitely my favorite Pride and Prejudice retelling! I rarely felt like Lizzie or Darcy acted out of character, and Ormiston raised challenges and portrayed conversations that I'd never considered. She brought to light new aspects of Darcy and Lizzie's relationship while still retaining what I've always loved about them. I think what I loved most about Unequal Affections is that it was true to the spirit of Pride and Prejudice, but it brought something new to the story. It was creative, engaging and so much fun to read. I already bought the audiobook for my future re-read - a sign that I'm absolutely so obsessed with this book!

Do you like when books are recommended to you?
Is there a specific type of recommendation that you prefer?

February 2016: On My Shelves + Recap

Mar 7, 2016


We're already well into March, and I'm just now posting my February recap - proof that I've been a lot more unplugged lately. I enjoyed February, but I'm excited to finally have some spring weather soon!

1. Happy Birthday to Me! - My birthday was February 1, and I used some gift cards and money that I received to buy two new purses and a keychain wallet. I'd had my eye on the Madewell Zip Transport Tote for a while, but I blame the awesome sale on the Kate Spade website for the other two purchases!

2. Bullet Journaling - After reading a blog post about bullet journaling (linked in the What I Bookmarked section below), I decided to give it a shot. And I think I'm in love! I've only been doing it for two weeks or so, but I love having ALL my lists, notes, to dos and more in one place. It's so convenient!

3. Baby Gift from Kelly - I loved opening this sweet gift for my baby boy! Kelly is always traveling the world, and I love that she's hoping to inspire a little wanderlust with this cute onesie from Spain. Nick and I both graduated from UGA, so you better believe this bib made us grin. I'm thankful for such a thoughtful friend!

Read 9 Books | Favorites:
Voyager by Diana Gabaldon
Emmy & Oliver by Robin Benway
Cartwheeling in Thunderstorms by Katherine Rundell
“It has always been forever, for me, Sassenach.”
Voyager by Diana Gabaldon

“Could you please stop dripping your sarcasm all over my car’s interior?”
Emmy & Oliver by Robin Benway

“Books crowbar the world open for you.” 
Rooftoppers by Katherine Rundell

 “I think, actually, everyone starts out with some strange in them. 
It's just whether or not you decide to keep it.”
Rooftoppers by Katherine Rundell
Discussion/Feature: February 2016: Favorite Factor
1. Do We Need New Love Songs? by Jay Wolf on Darling Magazine - If I was choosing one post to highlight this month, it would be this one. It's quite possibly the best post I've read about love and marriage - EVER. It's a powerful reminder of how loving someone through the best and worst is hard but so, so worth it.

2. One Weird Trick That Makes a Novel Addictive by Catherine Nichols on Jezebel - I love Jane Austen and Charlotte Brontë, so I found this article fascinating. I hadn't heard of this technique before - though it made sense as I read through the examples provided. I'll look at both authors with new eyes the next time I re-read!

3. The Big List of Book Lists by Anne from Modern Mrs. Darcy - It's probably no secret that I love this blog, especially since I bookmark something from it almost every month. But I just can't help myself! Anne's book lists are some of my favorites, so I was thrilled when she posted this master list with links to all of them.

4. How to Bullet Journal by Kendra from The Lazy Genius Collective - I have to credit this post with prompting me to learn more about bullet journaling and linking to this article. But both posts finally helped me understand this method - and gave me the motivation I needed to finally try! Now, I'm completely hooked.


Favorite Song: "Get Up, Get On" by Jill Andrews on The War Inside
I didn't realize that Jill Andrews came out with a new album last September,
so I had that on repeat for most of February. This is one of my favorite songs on it!

The Intern (2015) starring Robert De Niro and Anne Hathaway - I wanted to watch The Intern since I first saw the trailer for it, but I never got a chance to see it in theaters. So when I spotted it at Redbox, I immediately rented it. Nick watched it with me, and we both loved it. It wasn't what I expected - in the best way possible!

From Alexa: Truthwitch by Susan Dennard + this print that you can see in the photo of my gallery wall!

From Betty: Six of Crows by Leigh Bardugo + an adorable notebook and crafty goodies!

From Ellice: Anne of Green Gables by L.M. Montgomery


From Estelle: A Summer to Die by Lois Lowry + a cute zip pouch and lip balm/scrub 

From Kelly: The Perilous Gard by Elizabeth Marie Pope and Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen



Bought on Book Depository: Looking for Alibrandi, The Piper's Son, Saving Francesca, Froi of the Exiles and Quintana of Charyn by Melina Marchetta 

Bought on Book Outlet: Cartwheeling in Thunderstorms, Rooftoppers and The Wolf Wilder by Katherine Rundell

Bought at Target: Pax by Sara Pennypacker

From Nick: Curious Faith by Logan Wolfram

For Review: Britt-Marie Was Here by Fredrik Backman, Somewhere Out There by Amy Hatvany and One True Loves by Taylor Jenkins Reid

Favorite Factor: February 2016

Feb 29, 2016

Cassie and I are sharing four books with you: two recent favorites (and the factors that made us love them) and two upcoming reads (and the factors interest us). We hope you'll find the perfect book for you!
Life After Life by Kate Atkinson

Release Date: March 2013
Genre: Literary/Historical
Factor I Loved: Writing + Plot

Reason You Should Read:
Back in 2013, I kept hearing a ton of buzz for Life After Life. It seemed like everywhere I turned, people were talking about this book! The premise intrigued me, so I decided to put it on my Christmas wishlist. I was gifted a copy that year, but the book languished on my shelves ever since. It wasn't until I was working on my 2015 End of the Year Survey that I realized it was the one book on my shelves that I wanted to be absolutely sure to read in 2016. It ended up being one of my first reads of the year, and I'm so glad I finally picked it up! Part of the appeal of Life After Life is the concept: Ursula Todd is born on a cold and snowy night in 1910, but as she grows, she also dies, repeatedly, in a number of ways. There is a pattern to the unpredictability of life - for every time she is reborn, her life turns out a little differently. When I first started reading the book, I'll admit that I was super confused. But the longer I read, the more immersed and engaged I became in the heroine and in her life. Atkinson manages to avoid making the book feel repetitive. Instead, I thought the plot and the writing were incredibly imaginative and wonderfully gripping! I read the entire 500-page book in day, despite the sometimes weighty and complex subject matter. I'm already planning to read the companion novel, A God in Ruins, at some point this year. Although it's not an easy read, I'm so obsessed with it!

Voyager by Diana Gabaldon

Release Date: December 1993
Genre: Historical
Factor I Loved: Characters + Relationships

Reason You Should Read:
I think it's time to admit that I've fallen under the Outlander spell. I read the first book back in 2014 and loved it (in spite of some major reservations about certain aspects of it). I noted in my review that I was unsure of whether or not I wanted to continue the series. But when I found Dragonfly in Amber at the used bookstore for $3 a few months later, I couldn't resist. I quite enjoyed it, even though I'll probably always find aspects of these books slightly ridiculous. And yet... I keep coming back for more. When I finally finished watching the first season of the TV show earlier this year, I found myself craving more of these characters. So, I picked up Voyager and prepared for an epic and entertaining journey. I was hooked from the very first page! I don't know if it was the timing, my mood or simply that this story worked better for me, but I absolutely loved reading this book. In some ways, it might be my favorite of the series so far! At the end of Dragonfly in Amber, Claire learns some shocking news. Much of the beginning part of Voyager deals with the repercussions of what Claire has learned, as well as what's happening in the past that she left behind. She's forced to make a seemingly impossible decision, and I loved seeing her weigh her options, finally make her choice and then follow her as she saw it through. There were a few parts (particularly toward the end) that I found really odd, but it was a huge win for me overall. I so loved it - the romance, adventure and shifting setting - and I can't wait to see where Gabaldon takes these characters next! I'll definitely be picking up Drums in Autumn soon.
Rules of Civility by Amor Towles

Release Date: July 2011
Genre: Historical
Factor of Interest: Setting

Reasons I Want to Read:
I've had Rules of Civility sitting on my shelves since Christmas 2011. If you read my thoughts on Life After Life above, you're probably noticing my terrible pattern of letting the books I receive for Christmas sit on my shelves for far too long. I remember asking for this book because I heard great things about the writing, and the setting appealed to me because I'm typically a fan of this time period in books. Unfortunately, I let it fall off my mental radar... However, it was mentioned recently on my favorite podcast, which reminded me that I've really got to read it soon. Everything that was said about it made it sound right up my alley!

Eligible by Curtis Sittenfeld

Release Date: April 2016
Genre: Contemporary
Factor of Interest: Plot

Reasons I Want to Read:
I'm a huge fan of Pride and Prejudice retellings, even though they're very hit or miss. I usually spend too much time comparing them to the original, and yet I can't stop coming back to them! I'm a little more nervous than usual with Eligible because I tried to read something by Sittenfeld previously and hated it, but the reviews for this one seem mostly positive so far and that has me intrigued! And I'm a sucker for this cover - I love that it's still eye-catching in its simplicity. I look forward to seeing how Sittenfeld updates Austen's beloved story for modern times - and whether or not she's able to retain the charm of the original. I hope she pulls it off!

Want more? Check out Cassie's post!

The Story in a Song

Feb 16, 2016

Top Ten Tuesday is a weekly feature hosted by The Broke and The Bookish. Every week they post a new topic and invite everyone to share their answers. I'm so obsessed with lists - so I obviously love this feature!

Top Ten Songs I Wish Were Books


1. Who Are We Fooling by Brooke Fraser feat. Aqualung
Better or worse 
But what else can we do? 
For better or worse 
I am tethered to you 
If it's not either of us 
Tell me who are we fooling?


2. Eavesdrop by The Civil Wars
Oh, don't say that it's over 
Oh, no, say it ain't so 
Let's let the stars watch, let them stare 
Let the wind eavesdrop, I don't care 
For all that we've got, don't let it go 
Just hold me


3. The Country by The Dirty Guv'nahs feat. Jill Andrews
Met her halfway to Birmingham 
Leaving middle Tennessee 
Made a speech to say inside my head 
Swore that I’d say everything 
 “I’ve been giving you my life, and I’m always on time 
Four years are enough to decide, whether I’m you’re kind.”


4. Near to You by A Fine Frenzy
You and I have something different 
And I'm enjoying it cautiously 
I'm battle scarred, I am working oh so hard 
To get back to who I used to be


5. Incomplete by James Bay
I breathe in slow to compose myself 
But the bleeding heart I left on the shelf 
Started speeding round, beating half to death 
Cause you're here and you're all mine


6. Get Up, Get Out by Jill Andrews
Cover up the war inside 
The most beautiful part of ourselves is the part we hide 
So get up, get up, get up and go on 
Just a little belief to shake off the doubt


7. Falling for Me by Johnnyswim
I'm a diamond in the rough and wild 
You're a heart that's just too wild and free 
I'ma looking for a hand to hold me 
You're just looking for a chance to bring me to my knees


8. Welcome Home by Joy Williams
Come inside from the cold and rest your weary soul 
You belong, you are loved, you are wanted 
You're not alone 
I've missed you so 
 Welcome home


9. Mama's Broken Heart by Miranda Lambert
I cut my bangs with some rusty kitchen scissors 
I screamed his name ‘til the neighbors called the cops 
I numbed the pain at the expense of my liver 
Don’t know what I did next, all I know I couldn’t stop


10. Make You Miss Me by Sam Hunt
The only reason that you're good at goodbye is 
Every boy you ever met was too easy to forget 
Well, I ain't going out like that...
Make you wish that you were sleeping in my shirt 
Lie about my jacket and tell everyone it's yours 
When your phone rings after midnight and you're thinking maybe it's me 
I'm gonna make you miss me

The Many Faces of Monstrous Things

Feb 12, 2016


Release Date: September 2012
Publisher: Macmillan; Farrar, Straus and Giroux BFYR
Pages: 352 pages
Source & Format: Gifted; Paperback

Summary (from Goodreads)
Fierce, seductive mermaid Syrenka falls in love with Ezra, a young naturalist. When she abandons her life underwater for a chance at happiness on land, she is unaware that this decision comes with horrific and deadly consequences. 

Almost one hundred forty years later, seventeen-year-old Hester meets a mysterious stranger named Ezra and feels overwhelmingly, inexplicably drawn to him. For generations, love has resulted in death for the women in her family. Is it an undiagnosed genetic defect . . . or a curse? With Ezra’s help, Hester investigates her family’s strange, sad history. The answers she seeks are waiting in the graveyard, the crypt, and at the bottom of the ocean—but powerful forces will do anything to keep her from uncovering her connection to Syrenka and to the tragedy of so long ago. 

Thoughts on Monstrous Beauty
When Alexa and I hosted our Fall into Fantasy event, I mentioned that a mermaid was the magical creature I'd most like to be - and that I didn't think I'd ever read any mermaid books! Well, the lovely Elizabeth Fama commented that she'd love for Monstrous Beauty to be my first mermaid book and would even send a copy my way. I was thrilled! I'd long admired the gorgeous cover and had read many wonderful reviews for it, so I couldn't pass up on the opportunity to read it.  Monstrous Beauty successfully blends several genres - weaving together a contemporary heroine, a supernatural mystery and a historical backstory. The heroine, Hester, discovers a startling trend of early death in the women in her family and embarks on a search for answers. There was so much about this book that wasn't what I expected, but in the very best way. Fama's writing is lyrical and haunting, perfectly establishing the tone for the story she's telling. I liked that the story was darker and more intense than I would have expected, and I thought Fama made the setting, characters and folklore come alive in these pages. While I wasn't always a fan of the main character or the romance, it didn't diminish my overall enjoyment of the book. I'm so glad that it was my first experiences with mermaids!

So Quotable
“She wanted a smile that was meant only for her.”

Release Date: September 2015
Publisher: Lerner Books; Carolrhoda Lab
Pages: 408 pages
Source & Format: Bought; Hardcover

Summary (from Goodreads)
"This is East Texas, and there's lines. Lines you cross, lines you don't cross. That clear?" 

New London, Texas. 1937. Naomi Vargas and Wash Fuller know about the lines in East Texas as well as anyone. They know the signs that mark them. They know the people who enforce them. But sometimes the attraction between two people is so powerful it breaks through even the most entrenched color lines. And the consequences can be explosive. 

Ashley Hope Pérez takes the facts of the 1937 New London school explosion—the worst school disaster in American history—as a backdrop for a riveting novel about segregation, love, family, and the forces that destroy people. 

Thoughts on Out of Darkness
Prior to BEA last year, I was researching books that were already getting some buzz. I wasn't attending the conference, but I wanted to know what I'd likely see everyone reading and reviewing in the weeks and months to come! While this wasn't one of the "hyped" books, I came across a lovely review of it that made me curious. I put it on my mental radar and went on my way. Months later, I was browsing in Barnes and Noble with my husband and came across this book. I'll admit - I was surprised! I hadn't heard of the publisher before and never saw many reviews for the book. It's not often that I find lesser-known books in a major bookstore, especially in the Young Adult section. I read the first few pages and found that I couldn't put it down. There was something about Pérez's writing that drew me in, so I decided to buy it. I couldn't write my review for it immediately after I finished it because I felt a little conflicted. Let me try to explain. 

There are aspects of Out of Darkness that absolutely blew me away. It's a historical fiction book set in Texas and uses the events of the New London school explosion as "a backdrop for a riveting novel about segregation, love, family, and the forces that destroy people" (because the blurb says it best). And honestly, that's all true. The writing in this book was stunning. I can't praise Pérez enough for the character development, the way she formatted this story, and how she truly immersed me in this world. And yet... Out of Darkness explores some very heavy themes. They're handled thoughtfully, but they made for such difficult reading. I'd have a hard time putting this book in someone's hands and urging them to read it. Is it worth it? Yes, I think so. But I felt so uncomfortable and heartbroken while reading it that I can't say that I liked the experience. I'm glad I picked it up and truly believe it's deserving of the accolades it has received (2016 Printz Honor for Excellence in Young Adult Literature), but the brutality and bleakness was tough. The things that made this book so compelling were the same things that made me want to put it down. And how do you rate it and recommend a book like that?

So Quotable
"Wash never got tired of the woods. There was the beauty of the place and also the pleasure of finding things. The woods had a way of grabbing bits out of pockets and scattering them for other people to come across."


Release Date: October 2015
Publisher: Scholastic; Arthur A. Levine Books
Pages: 246 pages
Source & Format: Bought; Hardcover

Summary (from Goodreads)
Harry Potter has never been the star of a Quidditch team, scoring points while riding a broom far above the ground. He knows no spells, has never helped to hatch a dragon, and has never worn a cloak of invisibility. 

All he knows is a miserable life with the Dursleys, his horrible aunt and uncle, and their abominable son, Dudley--a great big swollen spoiled bully. Harry's room is a tiny closet at the foot of the stairs, and he hasn't had a birthday party in eleven years. 

But all that is about to change when a mysterious letter arrives by owl messenger: a letter with an invitation to an incredible place that Harry -- and anyone who reads about him -- will find unforgettable. 

Thoughts on Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone
I didn't grow up reading the Harry Potter books. It wasn't until I was out of college and married that I first picked up the series - and that was after I'd already seen all the movies! (I know, you're judging me a little.) Of course, once I started the first book, I couldn't put them down. I could see exactly why these characters had become so beloved! When I found out about the release of the illustrated edition of Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone, I was so excited... and that only increased the more sneak peeks I saw of the inside. I pre-ordered a copy (of course) and finally sat down to re-read it (for the first time!) earlier this year. Thankfully, it was a fantastic experience. Jim Kay's illustrations are absolutely gorgeous and bring this book to life in a way I never could have imagined. The amount of detail that went into every single page is just astounding! I read through the book more slowly than normal just so that I could savor Kay's artwork. It made me even more excited for the release of the illustrated editions of the rest of this series, and I know it will become something I look forward to every year. As for the book itself, I loved it just as much the second time around. I have no doubt this was the first of many re-reads to come!

So Quotable
“It does not do to dwell on dreams and forget to live.”
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