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Dec 9, 2015

Why Not Me? by Mindy Kaling

Release Date: September 15, 2015
Publisher: Random House; Crown Archetype
Pages: 240 pages
Source & Format: Bought; Hardcover
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Summary (Adapted from Goodreads)
In Why Not Me?, Kaling shares her ongoing journey to find contentment and excitement in her adult life, whether it’s falling in love at work, seeking new friendships in lonely places, attempting to be the first person in history to lose weight without any behavior modification whatsoever, or most important, believing that you have a place in Hollywood when you’re constantly reminded that no one looks like you.

Mindy turns the anxieties, the glamour, and the celebrations of her second coming-of-age into a laugh-out-loud funny collection of essays that anyone who’s ever been at a turning point in their life or career can relate to. And those who’ve never been at a turning point can skip to the parts where she talks about meeting Bradley Cooper.

Thoughts on Why Not Me?
I never consistently watched The Office, though I always cracked up at Mindy Kaling's Kelly Kapoor. So I didn't feel like I HAD to read Kaling's first book, Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me?, when I saw it a few years ago. But the title made me laugh, as did the first few pages, so I gave it a shot. And I loved it! It made me want to be Kaling's best friend, and it was the start of my love for her. Since then, I've become a huge fan of The Mindy Project and anxiously awaited the release of her second book, Why Not Me?

I pre-ordered a copy and read it on release day. Thankfully, it was just what I hoped - funny and a little quirky but still full of wisdom! If I was comparing the two books, I'd probably say I liked the first a bit more because I found myself more engaged in the essays and laughed more... But that's not to say this isn't a gem, too! Whereas her first book was more about her childhood, college life, and early career, Why Not Me? tackles a wider variety of topics. I enjoyed this collection of short essays on beauty, work, relationships and life. As a fan of The Mindy Project, I loved reading more about the work that goes into the show. And, of course, some of my favorite essays were Mindy's thoughts on friendship and romance.

Near the end, Mindy shares some words of wisdom that I'll never forget:
“People get scared when you try to do something, especially when it looks like you're succeeding. People do not get scared when you're failing It calms them... But when you're winning, it makes them feel like they're losing or, worse yet, that maybe they should've tried to do something too, but now it's too late. And since they didn't, they want to stop you. You can't let them.” 
And my favorite quote? Well, I've included that below. If you're a fan of Mindy, I certainly recommend reading this book. I think you'll walk away feeling like you know her better - and finding even more to love!

So Quotable
“Work hard, know your shit, show your shit, and then feel entitled. Listen to no one except the two smartest and kindest adults you know, and that doesn't always mean your parents. If you do that, you will be fine.”


Release Date: October 13, 2015

Publisher: Macmillan; Henry Holt BFYR
Pages: 272 pages
Source & Format: NetGalley; e-ARC

Summary (from Goodreads)
Devon Tennyson wouldn't change a thing. She's happy watching Friday night games from the bleachers, silently crushing on best friend Cas, and blissfully ignoring the future after high school. But the universe has other plans. It delivers Devon's cousin Foster, an unrepentant social outlier with a surprising talent for football, and the obnoxiously superior and maddeningly attractive star running back, Ezra, right where she doesn't want them first into her P.E. class and then into every other aspect of her life. 

Pride and Prejudice meets Friday Night Lights in this contemporary novel about falling in love with the unexpected boy, with a new brother, and with yourself.

Thoughts on First & Then
Promoting a book as Pride and Prejudice meets Friday Night Lights gives me extremely high expectations - and makes it impossible for me to say no! And if you add in an eye-catching cover? Consider me sold! I loved the summary for First & Then from the moment I read it, but I was worried. I've been burned by books with "too good to be true" descriptions before, and I hoped this would be everything I wanted and more. 

Thankfully, I was completely smitten with this story! Alexa read it first and told me that she thought I would love it, and I'm so happy she was right. It took so many things that I dearly love and blended them in a way that felt realistic and refreshing. Devon doesn't know what she wants to do with her life. As a senior in high school, she's got some big decisions ahead of her but wants things to stay the way they've always been. Unfortunately, life has other plans for her. Her socially awkward cousin, Foster, moves in with her family... and then there's the frustratingly handsome star running back, Ezra. When will everything fall into place?

I thoroughly enjoyed this story! At its heart, it's all about Devon's growth. There are subtle changes over the course of the book - small lessons and moments that push her forward and pull her in different directions. I thought Mills captured the high school setting really well, and I found the coming of age aspects of the story very relatable. But my favorite part was the relationships. I loved the friendships, the family dynamics and the blossoming romance. It all came together in such an endearing way!

For me, I think First & Then succeeded because it wasn't a retelling. Mills doesn't try to take Pride and Prejudice and place it in a contemporary setting. Instead, she pays homage to the inspiration in small and thoughtful ways, which I loved. There were so many great Austen-related references that delighted me! I'm not a huge football fan (though I love Friday Night Lights), but I was pleased with the role it played in the story. It wasn't the focus, but it was definitely something that made the setting come alive. Although it's a relatively light and fluffy read (that occasionally needed a bit more development), I couldn't put First & Then down. I'm so glad I read it, and I look forward to more from Mills in the future!

So Quotable
"I feel about you the way they feel in those books. The way those guys feel about those girls that they don’t always deserve."
*I received a copy of this book from the publisher for review consideration. This did not affect my opinion of the book or my review.

Author Obsessions in 2015

Dec 8, 2015

Top Ten Tuesday is a weekly feature hosted by The Broke and The Bookish. Every week they post a new topic and invite everyone to share their answers. I'm so obsessed with lists - so I obviously love this feature!

Top Ten New-to-Me Authors I Read in 2015


I have this post in the back of my mind throughout the year, and I've known ever since I read My Grandmother Asked Me to Tell You She's Sorry that Fredrik Backman would be on it. And after finished A Man Called Ove, it just sealed the deal. His writing is eccentric, imaginative, insightful and touching. I can't get enough!


2. Katherine Center | Happiness for Beginners
If I loved a book enough to read it twice in one month, it's a given that the author is making my list of favorite new-to-me discoveries. Happiness for Beginners was everything I want in a good read, and I've pushed it on so many people. Center's writing took a simple and familiar story to another level. AND THE SWOON.


I thoroughly enjoyed Gaughen's twist on a folk tale, and I binged this series in  a week! While I was impressed by the character development and incorporation of dialect, it was the emotion that made me adore these books and author. No one told me that I needed to prepare my heart... and have tissues on hand!


4. Stacey Lee | Of Beast and Beauty
I bought this book on a whim and had high hopes for it, but I never expected to love it as much as I did! The story had me hooked almost immediately, and I credit that to Jay's gorgeous writing. The lyrical quality just blew my away, and I can't even do it justice. Not to mention the vivid world that Jay brought to life!


5. Stacey Lee | Under a Painted Sky
Historical fiction is my favorite genre, so I was thrilled when I started seeing praise pouring in for this read. And once I read it for myself, I knew this was only the beginning of Lee's bright future! I loved everything about this book - the writing, the characters, the romance, the setting, the story... Now I'm dying for more from Lee.


6. Mhairi McFarlane | It's Not Me, It's You and Here's Looking at You
I'm cheating a little bit with this author because I technically read my first book from her in 2014. I enjoyed it, but it didn't even compare to the two I read from her this year. I love the humor in McFarlane's books, but they make me cry a little, too. I find myself so drawn to her characters and the themes in her stories.


7. Collen Oakley | Before I Go
I technically read Oakley's debut at the very end of 2014, but I didn't include her on my list of favorite new-to-me authors because I wanted to wait until her book was actually published. I loved Oakley's writing style, and I became enamored with her main character's voice and journey. I wanted the book to never end!


8. Rebecca Stead | Goodbye Stranger
I requested this book for review because I was intrigued by the summary, and I'm so thankful for that decision! This was one of the most though-provoking books I read this year, and Stead expertly captures the awkwardness and coming-of-age that happens in middle. It was a complex read, in the very best way.


I thought this series was so clever, smart and engaging. I loved the combination of fantasy and historical fiction, which felt fresh and unique. In all the serious moments, I looked forward to the doses of humor and romance. Thomas' writing was just so consistently good, and I'd love to read more YA from her!


10. Nancy Turner | These is My Words
Oh my goodness, I adore when one books makes me fall head over heels in love with the author! That was my experience with These is My Words - a book that was languishing on my TBR until I randomly picked it up and became completely obsessed. The writing, characters and romance absolutely blew me away!

Did any of these authors make your list?
Have I convinced you to give any of them a shot?

Time Travel To: Westward Expansion

Dec 7, 2015

"Ordnance Survey One-Inch Map" by bull_de is licensed under CC BY 2.0
I'm really excited about teaming up with Alexa from Alexa Loves Books and Kelly from Belle of the Literati for Time Travel To, a feature celebrating our love of historical fiction! Each post will highlight a historical place, time period or event that we find particularly fascinating. We'll post on the same day, but we'll often be focusing on a different time period. In each post, we'll tell you why we love a time period (Departure), recommend a few books we love (In Transit) and share some from that time period on our TBR (Arrival). Enjoy this first edition!


When we started talking about what time periods we wanted to cover in today's posts, Alexa and I discovered that we were both interested in highlighting books about the west. In recent years, I would have told you I wasn't a fan of books set in this time period, but that's because I forgot that how much I adored reading about it growing up. Thankfully, I've found a few books recently that reminded me of what I loved about it! Since it's a broad time period, we're calling it Westward Expansion. Occurring from 1807-1912, it includes the Oregon Trail, pioneer life, the Gold Rush, the resettlement of Native Americans, and more. 

Clockwise from Top: 1, 2, 3, 4
I believe my initial interest in the west stemmed from my love of the Little House series by Laura Ingalls Wilder and from the Dear America books I read that were set during that time period. There was something so exciting about the idea of packing up everything and traveling on a dangerous journey in hopes of a brand-new life! Americans moved west looking for land and gold - sold on the promise of freedom and prosperity. Sadly, it was also a period dominated by the removal of Native Americans from their homes and the resettlement of them on reservations. But it's a setting rich with detail and filled with the kind of action that's made for fiction.



Caddie Woodlawn by Carol Ryrie Brink - I don't remember very much about this book, but I do know that I loved it growing up. It reminded me of Laura Ingalls Wilder's Little House series, and I found Caddie so exciting and adventurous! I love that it's based on the life and memories of the author's grandmother.

Sarah, Plain and Tall by Patricia MacLachlan - I think this was one of the first books I read involving a mail-order bride, and I was fascinated by the concept. It shocked me that people traveled so far to marry someone they didn't even know! Honestly, I still enjoy reading books about this topic, even as an adult.

Our Only May Amelia by Jennifer L. Holm - Holm was one of my favorite authors, and Our Only May Amelia was the first book (I believe) that I read by her. I enjoyed reading about being a pioneer in Washington, and I loved May Amelia's sense of adventure. This is another book inspired by the author's relative!

Boston Jane by Jennifer L. Holm - My favorite series from Holm! I read this book a little later on (I think when I was in middle school), and I was immediately hooked. Jane doesn't want to be a proper young lady. She's a bit of a spitfire, which won me over. I recently re-read this series and thoroughly enjoyed it all over again!


Across the Wide and Lonesome Prairie by Kristiana Gregory - And now we get to the Dear America portion of this post. I was OBSESSED as a kid! I loved playing the Oregon Trail computer game, so it was only natural that I'd be crazy about this Oregon Trail diary. I remember thinking that I'd never survive the journey.

Valley of the Moon by Sherry Garland - One thing I loved about the Dear America books was reading about different voices from the past. This book, the story of a servant in a Spanish home in California, opened my eyes to an aspect of that time period I'd never read about before. It taught me so much!

My Face to the Wind by Jim Murphy - This book always reminded me of the later books in the Little House series when Laura becomes a teacher. It's the story of a young girl who traveled West to earn money teaching and make a new life for herself. I was so impressed by everything she had to do at a young age.

The Girl Who Chased Away Sorrow by Ann Turner - This book made me incredibly sad! It's the story of a young Navajo's forced 400-mile Long Walk from their ancestral home. It broke my heart to read about what happened and added a completely new perspective to the way I'd always viewed westward expansion.


Under a Painted Sky by Stacey Lee - I read this book earlier this year and absolutely fell in love with it! I shared 26 reasons to read it, but my favorite is that it depicted the diversity on the Oregon Trail. Plus, I became so fond of the characters and their relationships. It exemplifies why I love historical fiction! 

These is My Words by Nancy E. Turner - This was another book I discovered earlier this year, and it's definitely earned a spot on my all-time favorites list. I fell in love with this brave heroine who is filled with gumption and grit. The writing was amazing, but the romance is what blew me away. I'm so obsessed with it. 

Redeeming Love by Francine Rivers - This is classic Christian fiction book is inspired by the book of Hosea in the Bible, and it's set in California's gold country in 1850. It was my one of the first books I read by Francine Rivers, and I fell in love with her writing. This was one of my favorite books in high school!

The Doctor's Lady by Jody Hedlund - I've read a number of books by Hedlund, but this one is my favorite so far. This is a book about a marriage of convenience (one of my favorite tropes), and I was absolutely hooked. Reading about their journey on the Oregon Trail reminded me of why I loved the time period growing up!

More: Rachel's Journal by Marissa Moss, Little House by Laura Ingalls Wilder, Walking Up a Rainbow by Theodore Taylor, Vengeance Road by Erin Bowman, Walk on Earth a Stranger by Rae Carson, The Inheritance by Tamera Alexander,  Orphan Train by Christine Baker Kline and The Diary of Mattie Spenser by Sandra Dallas 



May B. by Caroline Starr Rose - I read a review of this book a few years ago that made me so curious about it. Written in verse, it's the story of a young girl who helps out on a neighbor's Kansas prairie homestead but becomes trapped in the snow-covered house while miles from her family. I'm hoping she finds her way home!

Land of the Buffalo Bones by Marion Dane Bauer - I really took an inventory of all my Dear America books to figure out which ones I was missing. I want to have a complete collection! When I discovered this one, I was instantly mad I'd missed it growing up. I have no doubt that I would have loved it.

Jubilee Trail by Gwen Bristow - After reading These is My Words earlier this year, I was searching for similar adult fiction titles. I came across this one and instantly added it to my wishlist. It doesn't hurt that the foreword is written by Nancy Turner. What more do I need? That's recommendation enough!

The Outcasts by Kathleen Kent - I've always loved the cover and title for this book, but I've never gotten around to reading it. I'm not sure why, however, because it's got buried treasure, a manhunt, and a heroine trying to make a life for herself out west. That sounds exactly like something I'd love!


Little Century by Anna Keesey - I spotted this in a bookstore a few years ago and was so drawn in by the cover! The ratings for this one make me a little nervous, but I think I need to see for myself if it's right for me. The summary sounds fascinating, so I'd hate to miss out on a book that would totally work for me.

Lonesome Dove by Larry McMurtry - I think this is considered a classic story of the west. The Goodreads summary says it's "a love story, an adventure, and an epic of the frontier." Plus, it won a Pulitzer Prize. I hadn't heard of this before researching this post, but it's definitely moved up on my wishlist now!

The Son by Philipp Meyer - I read a chapter of this book and was unsure of it, but I do love a good multigenerational saga. This follows a Texas family through the years and "maps the legacy of violence in the American West." I'm a little wary but definitely curious. I need to read more reviews of it to decide.

Sarah's Quilt by Nancy E. Turner - I've been hesitant to read this sequel to These is My Words because I loved that book's ending and have read mixed things about this one. However, I think I'm curious about it to pass it up completely! I'll probably read this next year, and I hope I don't regret it.

Series Speed Date: Round #9

Dec 4, 2015

This section will cover any key details about the series.

Books In Series: Shadowfell, Raven Flight and The Caller 
Released: June 2012 | July 2013 | September 2014
Publisher: Random House | Knopf BFYR
Pages: 410 pages | 406 pages | 480 pages

What do these covers say about this series?

I don't hate these covers like I do some of Marillier's other books, but I don't love them either. I think my biggest issue is that I'd never be drawn to them in a bookstore if I hadn't read Marillier before. They're not eye-catching and don't make me ask, "Hmm... I wonder what that book is about!" They're not awful, but they don't scream fantasy series to me. And the model doesn't match the image I have of the heroine!

Based on the summary, what can you expect going into this series?

Before I even read the summary, I had certain expectations for this series because it's written by Juliet Marillier. I knew I'd love the writing, that it would be set in a world threatened by some type of evil, that the pacing would probably be slower, and that it would be a very character-driven story. I hoped for a swoony romance since Marillier has written two of my all-time favorites, though I couldn't tell if there'd be one of not. And, of course, I expected fantasy with a powerful journey for the main character. When I finally looked at the summary for Shadowfell, I knew I was right on so many counts:
"Sixteen-year-old Neryn is alone in the land of Alban, where the oppressive king has ordered anyone with magical strengths captured and brought before him. Eager to hide her own canny skill -- a uniquely powerful ability to communicate with the fairy-like Good Folk -- Neryn sets out for the legendary Shadowfell, a home and training ground for a secret rebel group determined to overthrow the evil King Keldec.

During her dangerous journey, she receives aid from the Good Folk, who tell her she must pass a series of tests in order to recognize her full potential. She also finds help from a handsome young man, Flint, who rescues her from certain death -- but whose motives in doing so remain unclear. Neryn struggles to trust her only allies. They both hint that she alone may be the key to Alban's release from Keldec's rule. Homeless, unsure of who to trust, and trapped in an empire determined to crush her, Neryn must make it to Shadowfell not only to save herself, but to save Alban."
Didn't I call it? An epic journey, a magical world, a handsome stranger, and the promise of a better future.

What are some highlights of the series?

A gorgeously written story led by well-developed characters.
A kind and gifted heroine determined to do the right thing - no matter the costs.
A handsome and intriguing man in a dangerous position and keeping many secrets.
A group of Good Folk longing for peace and potentially able to turn the tide of war.
An evil and powerful King and Queen who want to silence all opposition.
A world where people live in fear, magic seems to no longer exists, and a rebellion is stirring.
A story of hidden talents, searches for knowledge, unexpected relationships and powerful courage.
A romance that comes second to the cause but has lovely dreams for the future.
An epic quest and a battle against evil by characters who believe in love, generosity and loyalty. 

How will you feel closing the last page?

When I started Shadowfell, I was immediately hooked. I was intrigued by the world and wanted to know more. I could already tell I was going to love the main character, so I was excited to follow her on her journey. And, as expected, Marillier's writing just drew me in. After finishing (and loving) that book, I moved right on to Raven Flight. Although it was a bit slower (and probably my least favorite of the series), I found myself falling more in love with the secondary characters. They were stealing the show!

Then, I got to the last book, The Caller. Honestly, it was probably my favorite book in the series! It's the perfect conclusion to the series. These books build as they go, and they're strong when you look at them as a whole. If you're thinking of reading them, I'd definitely recommend making the time to read them back to back. Each step in this journey is significant, and the last book brings all the threads together in a way that just thrilled me. There's so much growth, for Neryn and others, that it only deepens the impact of the relationships between the characters. I was equally caught up in the political and personal aspects of this series. I cared deeply for the romance, but I was also so invested in the outcome of the fight against injustice. And honestly, I was never sure how everything would end. Thankfully, it was everything I could have asked for and more.

Summing up this series in just three words?

Thoughtful. Emotional. Powerful.

Is this series worth your time?

I couldn't decide what to read, so I picked up a handful of books and decided to read a few pages of each. Shadowfell was the second book in the stack, and I "accidentally" read five chapters before realizing how far I'd gone. I was hooked, and I knew I'd found the perfect book for my mood!  I finished the whole series in about a week, and I sighed in contentment when it was over. And I may have shed a tear or two at the fact that I had to say goodbye to the characters I'd come to know and love. 

Marillier was a new-to-me author last year, and I've been obsessed with her ever since. She's an incredible writer, and I'm so happy I've discovered her work. This series just sealed the deal for me! I will always recommend picking up her books. What's not to love? She delivers complex characters, imaginative worlds, slow-burn romances and epic quests for truth and justice. 

Time to Move On

Dec 3, 2015


After You by Jojo Moyes

Release Date: September 29, 2015
Publisher: Penguin; Pamela Dorman Books
Pages: 352 pages
Source & Format: Bought; Hardcover
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Summary (from Goodreads)
Louisa Clark is no longer just an ordinary girl living an ordinary life. After the transformative six months spent with Will Traynor, she is struggling without him. When an extraordinary accident forces Lou to return home to her family, she can’t help but feel she’s right back where she started. 

Her body heals, but Lou herself knows that she needs to be kick-started back to life. Which is how she ends up in a church basement with the members of the Moving On support group, who share insights, laughter, frustrations, and terrible cookies. They will also lead her to the strong, capable Sam Fielding—the paramedic, whose business is life and death, and the one man who might be able to understand her. Then a figure from Will’s past appears and hijacks all her plans, propelling her into a very different future. . . . 

Thoughts on After You
When After You was announced, I was nervous. As sad as I was when I finished Me Before You, I didn't want the story to continue. I liked being able to imagine my own future for Lou - the uncertainty of things in her life didn't leave me wanting more. It actually made me feel hopeful for her! But, at the same time, I knew I'd pick up After You when it was released. I was too curious about where Moyes would go next, and I believed that she wouldn't write the book unless she had a story that needed to be told.

Unfortunately, I don't feel that way anymore. I know that everyone won't agree with me, but I honestly do not think this book should have been written. Having read a number of books from Jojo Moyes at this point, I was surprised this was something she'd written. Her books never fail to surprise me, to make me emotionally invested, to sparkle with creativity and warmth. Despite the heavy subject matter, Me Before You never seemed like a depressing read. After You, on the other hand, just made me so sad. I kept asking myself why it had been published - and why I was continuing to read it. The plot was contrived, the writing was dull, the characters were frustrating and the book was just boring. I never imagined describing a Moyes book that way!

I went into the book with no expectations for the story. I wasn't looking for something from Lou or anticipating a certain future for her. So, I can't even blame the hype or my expectations for the disappointment I felt! Everything in this story seemed so cliché. There were elements that served no purpose (Lou's mom), a romance with absolutely no chemistry, moments of drama that seemed better suited to a soap opera (a ridiculous accident and a shooting) and, worst of all, a "surprise from the past" that was incredibly contrived. It's a "shocking twist" that's been done a million times before - and in better and more creative ways. And it didn't even feel like it was Lou's story! It was dominated by Will's past and storylines more focused on secondary characters than on Lou. Plus, the book was slow and tedious. It was a chore to get through!

Sadly, I cannot recommend After You. I don't want to spoil anything, which is why I'm not going into more detail about my specific issues with the plot. Needless to say, however, this doesn't compare to Me Before You and certainly doesn't capture the magic of Lou or of Jojo Moyes' writing! 

So Quotable
"You don't have to let that one thing be the thing that defines you."
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